Married guys in recovery

Hi there I was on here a while back and migrated to Discord and AP's, but I wanted to connect with folks again on here.

Well this morning my wife called a meeting to express that she wants another full disclosure by this coming Tuesday during our marriage counseling sessions. I flat out told her no it's not time we need to see our Sex Addiction Counselor and do a lot of work before something like that is safe for me to proceed. I also told her that my conscience is clear in my sobriety: I have a strong network of support between groups, AP's, and therapists. I am a work in progress, but the recovery is working. We have a lot of broken trust, and broken emotions. I am finding myself in this predicament because I made a decision a year ago that my wife was no longer a safe person for disclosures of my recovery journey, and I never told her about that decision.

Are there other married guys on here that would like to connect about marital issues within recovery? I covet your prayers as my wife and I seek help with mediated sessions to work out our differences with regard to disclosure.