Married with questions.....

I’ve passed the 30 day mark of no PMO/standard mode. It’s been a rough 6 days after hitting the 30 mark. My question has to do with day dreaming about sex with my wife. I feel like this is normal and not a bad thing, but it’s making it hard to stay away from P. That use to be one of my triggers.Rubbing/massaging/scratching my wife’s back is something I’ve always enjoyed doing, but it does lead me to think about sex which can take me down a dark path. Do I stopmassaging and day dreaming about my wife? Or do I find ways to dealwith it not associated with P?

 

No to hard mode. P use has been an issue in my marriage for almost 15 years. We have had several blow ups in the past over it and I’d rather not have another one. So keeping her in the dark about the changes I am making have been the route I am taking. So I’m doing a standard challenge.

 

I have that issue sometimes the day after. I’ve discussed it on here. But it depends on the encounter really. And how much I allow myself to daydream. I’m finding that the challenge starts there. The better I am at controlling those early morning urges to think about sex, the easier the day can be. Sat and Sun are the hardest because I don’t have to get out of bed as soon as I wake up. I’m going to try and make it a point this weekend to get up as soon as I wake up and do something productive. Hopefully that will make the weekend easier.