Hi, I posted this in the new members forums yesterday and then found this forum and thought that people here might be able to offer some insight/support. My biggest P problem currently is masquerading as a female on D/S sites such as CS. Not just any female, my wife. This is deeply shameful to me, upsetting (traumatic even) for her and a waste of time for myself and everyone I interact with on CS. Effectively I have stolen her identity and compromised her personal security. It is stupid beyond belief and yet in spite of the risks, and the damage done, I have failed to abstain from this for any great length of time. I feel that I am the lowest of the low, undeserving of my wife, and my children. I would be so very grateful for the support of this community.