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Timemachine

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(Hi everyone I'm new here)
I have been visiting a massage parlour in my home town for about a year now, but really its just a brothel in disguise. Anyway I got to know this one girl so she gave me her number, it started off with "hello dear, good night my love".
Then she asked me would I pretend to be her partner so she wouldn't be deported from the country, I nearly did it but then I thought about the consequences of doing so. I've known for sometime that this had become an addiction, not to mention the amount of money I've sent In the massage parlour.
This is the first day trying to break my sex addiction.
 
Timemachine said:
(Hi everyone I'm new here)
I have been visiting a massage parlour in my home town for about a year now, but really its just a brothel in disguise. Anyway I got to know this one girl so she gave me her number, it started off with "hello dear, good night my love".
Then she asked me would I pretend to be her partner so she wouldn't be deported from the country, I nearly did it but then I thought about the consequences of doing so. I've known for sometime that this had become an addiction, not to mention the amount of money I've sent In the massage parlour.
This is the first day trying to break my sex addiction.
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I don’t frequent massage parlours, the only massage parlours I have been to are legitimate massage parlours (no sexual favours). Although I haven’t visited these types of massage parlours, I can tell you this woman is just toying with your emotions for financial gains and benefits.

She will message you endearing things like hello darling and goodnight my love so you keep thinking about her which will emotionally pull you towards seeing her at the massage parlour where she can make money off you.

She also used this emotional manipulation to try and convince you to pretend to be her partner.

If you want proof this isn’t what she is doing, ask to have dinner with her outside of work hours or ask to just hang out with her outside of work hours as friends which doesn’t involve a transaction of money. I guarantee you she won’t do it because she will not get paid for the time she spends with you outside of work.

Don’t fall for this, I have never been to those massage parlours but I have a lot of experience with women to know when someone is being manipulated. She probably has many men’s phone numbers and doing the exact same thing with them as she is to you
 
Keepitsimple1989 said:
I don’t frequent massage parlours, the only massage parlours I have been to are legitimate massage parlours (no sexual favours). Although I haven’t visited these types of massage parlours, I can tell you this woman is just toying with your emotions for financial gains and benefits.

She will message you endearing things like hello darling and goodnight my love so you keep thinking about her which will emotionally pull you towards seeing her at the massage parlour where she can make money off you.

She also used this emotional manipulation to try and convince you to pretend to be her partner.

If you want proof this isn’t what she is doing, ask to have dinner with her outside of work hours or ask to just hang out with her outside of work hours as friends which doesn’t involve a transaction of money. I guarantee you she won’t do it because she will not get paid for the time she spends with you outside of work.

Don’t fall for this, I have never been to those massage parlours but I have a lot of experience with women to know when someone is being manipulated. She probably has many men’s phone numbers and doing the exact same thing with them as she is to you
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Yes thank you, your reply will give me strength not to go back there.
 
Timemachine said:
Yes thank you, your reply will give me strength not to go back there.
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You got this brother, if you need any advice you can always reach out.

I made this account to just help people, I don’t PMO anymore and haven’t done so in a long time. I didn’t realise porn caused ED, the moment I found out I stopped porn and masturbation immediately and never went back to it.

I’m 35 years old if you are wondering, but feel free to reach out if you need anything.
 
Keepitsimple1989 said:
You got this brother, if you need any advice you can always reach out.

I made this account to just help people, I don’t PMO anymore and haven’t done so in a long time. I didn’t realise porn caused ED, the moment I found out I stopped porn and masturbation immediately and never went back to it.

I’m 35 years old if you are wondering, but feel free to reach out if you need anything.
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I put what you said to her, and she blocked my number
 
Keepitsimple1989 said:
When you say took money, is this because she came to your flat because you asked for sexual favours? Or did she come to your flat to just hang out
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She came to my flat to talk about me putting her name on my council tax bill, electricity bill so she could show her solicitor she was living with me, so she wouldn't be deported back to China for overstaying her work visa
 
Timemachine said:
She came to my flat to talk about me putting her name on my council tax bill, electricity bill so she could show her solicitor she was living with me, so she wouldn't be deported back to China for overstaying her work visa
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Yeah she was definitely using you, please don’t tell me you put your name on the things she requested.

Ask yourself this, did she ever contact you if she didn’t need anything? Did she ever offer to just spend one on one time with you that didn’t require a transaction for sexual service or trying to convince you to pretend you are in a relationship with her?

Also, if she wasn’t using you, why would she block you without even trying to discuss this with you?
 
Keepitsimple1989 said:
Yeah she was definitely using you, please don’t tell me you put your name on the things she requested.

Ask yourself this, did she ever contact you if she didn’t need anything? Did she ever offer to just spend one on one time with you that didn’t require a transaction for sexual service or trying to convince you to pretend you are in a relationship with her?

Also, if she wasn’t using you, why would she block you without even trying to discuss this with you?
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Yeah I don't want to sound like a wimp, but I feel abandoned by the whole thing. I didn't go through with it.
 
Timemachine said:
(Hi everyone I'm new here)
I have been visiting a massage parlour in my home town for about a year now, but really its just a brothel in disguise. Anyway I got to know this one girl so she gave me her number, it started off with "hello dear, good night my love".
Then she asked me would I pretend to be her partner so she wouldn't be deported from the country, I nearly did it but then I thought about the consequences of doing so. I've known for sometime that this had become an addiction, not to mention the amount of money I've sent In the massage parlour.
This is the first day trying to break my sex addiction.
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I would consider doing it (out of moral principle) only to help a fellow human being not be deported from the country where they live. At the same time, all other aspects, including the sex, etc. are harmful and need to stop.
 
Keepitsimple1989 said:
So that just means she only had coffee to try and gain something from you.

She has never spent time with you without trying to abstract something form you, that should tell you everything you need to know
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Getting deported is pretty terrible, and I can understand why someone might go to desperate measures to prevent themselves from being deported. I'd advise OP and the girl to visit a pro-bono legal center or immigrant-rights/human-rights NGO to discuss the best legal options to help her to stay in the country.
 
hhh999 said:
Getting deported is pretty terrible, and I can understand why someone might go to desperate measures to prevent themselves from being deported. I'd advise OP and the girl to visit a pro-bono legal center or immigrant-rights/human-rights NGO to discuss the best legal options to help her to stay in the country.
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There is no excuse for anyone to manipulate someone into doing this.

This woman manipulated him to pay for sex by toying with his emotions. She also used his emotions that she toyed with to try and get him to falsify her living conditions without thinking of the consequences for him, she only thought of herself.

The moment she gets what she wants, she isn’t even bother communicating with him unless it involves a paid transaction for sex.

This has to be a troll comment, there is no way you are advocating for this.

Horrible or not regarding being deported, what she did to the man and what she tried to swindle him into doing is much more horrible than her being deported.

You can’t be serious.

OP, ignore what this person has said, absolutely shocked that anyone would suggest this

You help people that deserve to be helped. That logic is like saying “an escaped convict needed a place to hide, so out of moral principle and to help another human, I let him crash at my place while police are searching for him”.
 
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