Masturbate or no?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by EnterTheMatrix, Apr 19, 2020.

Masturbation at Sunday night only?

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  2. No

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  1. EnterTheMatrix

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    135th day streak of NoFap Monk mode today. Just wanted to ask you my friends that as I have completed my 90 days way before , then now should I only Masturbate without porn on Sunday night. And as today it is Sunday , so I am asking you this and hoping for the reply fast. What should I do give me any better suggestion or will it be fine ? Give me the vote yes or no.
     
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  2. eevahnits

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    If I was in your position I wouldn't masturbate at all. You have a great streak. 135 days is awesome!! It proves you can do without it so why would you want to do it again? I know it looks tempting to m, however I wouldn't like to break a streak that long.

    After all, no one can decide for you. Whatever you do, it should be solely your decision. I am voting 'no' but don't pay attention. Whatever you feel you should do, do it. :) (Although, by asking this question you clearly have doubts so it probably means you don't want it that bad :p)

    Whatever you decide, I hope it makes you feel good.
     
  3. Bear1996

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    Masterbation may lead to a downhill spiral, I'd recommend now that you've made it past the 90 day mark, I feel you should seek out a relationship with another person. Eventually that would lead to a healthy sex life. That's what you've been working for after all!
     
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  4. EnterTheMatrix

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    Thank you for your suggestion and the vote
     
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  5. EnterTheMatrix

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    So should I need a relationship compulsory or should I focus on my career first , and for that will it be ok for masturbation if not on women if I focused on me career
     
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  6. Bear1996

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    In and of itself masturbation is not bad, nor is it the problem p*** is the problem. But with someone with a history of PMO addiction masturbation even without p*** could be a black hole back into PMO. So that's why I would be cautious about masturbation. But in the end it's your decision 135 days is a hell of a streak! Great job!
     
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  7. I wouldn't reccomend that, not because it's damaging but because masturbation gives short term relief then you will mostly feel a bigger urge, it will distract you again with sexual thoughts and acts, it will reawaken that sexual beast, at least from my experience, maybe it won't for you, I don't know
    If you can go without it, if you don't feel like you're about to explode, then it's better not to masturbate
     
  8. No reason to do it.
    It has no benefit in your life, and only has disadvantages.
    Follow your logical sense and avoid it.
     
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