Masturbating in my sleep

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Prodigal Warrior, Jun 9, 2018.

  1. Prodigal Warrior

    Prodigal Warrior Fapstronaut

    The other night I went to sleep, about an hour later I masturbated really hard while sleeping, and I saw a few images of the girl I like during this, I could feel it, it seemed more pleasurable then when I look at porn, but I don't want this, I have been avoiding masturbating to any mental image of this girl to stay pure, but I did this in my sleep, I felt it but was still asleep unable to control it. I just did it out of no where, is there a reason for this happening? I've never done it in my life, and I'd rather not uncontrollably think of the girl I like with this.
     
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  2. Theultimatefighter_21

    Theultimatefighter_21 Fapstronaut

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    I can relate with your situation because i'm going through something similar. It's better to avoid overthinking about this girl, you like someone and this is good, but if you are feeling that this person is influencing negatively your life, try to stop stressing about this. And one more tip and the most important: Avoid any kind of material that can turn you on, physically or emotionally, or it will lead you to relapse.

    OBS: I would try the Hard mode if i were you, it's way better than just No P. Obviously, it's only my opinion.
     
  3. Prodigal Warrior

    Prodigal Warrior Fapstronaut

    No, they aren't influencing me negatively, it hasn't happened before and only this once. But I do need to just forget it I guess. Stressing over something I couldn't control won't help me.

    Also I tried hard mode, I would like to do it but my plan right now was to cut the porn first, and once I go a good amount of time without porn, I would slowly give schedules to when I was allowed to masturbate in the bathroom to my thoughts, and then slowly make it less and less until I can go without it.
     
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  4. Theultimatefighter_21

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    Yeah, forget it, or at least do no strees about her because this really will not help you. And sorry for my misunderstanding.

    It's a nice strategy! Stopping with P before MO is more likely to succeed. I really hope you a good reboot!
     
  5. BestVersionToday

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    Iv touched it and iv got out of bed to do it, had dreams of fapping.

    Its the subconscious doing what you secretly want and it comes out in abstinence. I think it may be about making fapping a non option, like no option at all.
     
  6. Simon8

    Simon8 Fapstronaut

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    I’ve done this in the past. It’s like you’ve started before you’ve been given the choice. I found that they come in phases and they eventually pass. I did it for like 3-4 nights in a row and then nothing for months and months. Hope this helps buddie
     
  7. PMO addict

    PMO addict Fapstronaut

    Yeah I have had a few times where I woke up doing M. I even woke up once with my...

    finger up my Butt Hole!

    That was a real surprise.

    I don't post it to trigger any one but more for the sake of any one who has also had that happen before and feels shame. I don't really feel shame about it but I definitely was startled.
     

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