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Masturbating while others watch

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by GeorgeJetson, Sep 20, 2018.

  1. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    Today starts day 9 for me and I'm doing quite well. As you mentioned, these habits are definitely unnecessary but highly addictive and problematic. However, staying P and chat app free for 9 days now and participating as much as I can on nofap is really helping me recover.
     
  2. HelplessPleaseHelp?

    HelplessPleaseHelp? Fapstronaut

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    Great man. Good progress! Keep on going! You will do fine!
     
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  3. upgrade2.0

    upgrade2.0 Fapstronaut

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    I used to be right there with you man. I stopped doing that mid Dec in 2017. I used to be addicted to it for at least a decade. Omegle was my addiction. I would spend hours edging just looking for the next girl to watch me masturbate. I didnt want to orgasm because I wanted to keep the rush going...once you orgasm the thrill is over. For me the thrill was having a girl watch in awe. I used to record myself too. I would watch them briefly but it was more of like a trophy video for me if that makes sense. I was like proud of it.
    Girls want to watch guys masturbate just like guys like to watch girls masturbate. Its an issue when either side becomes addicted to it. I swore to myself the only time Ill masturbate with a girl watching me is when that girl is either my girlfriend or wife. No more random girls on camera. Thats not healthy.
    Anyways, flash forward and Im free of porn...free of masturbating on cam...free of masturbating in general. I've improved SO MUCH in all aspects of my life.
    So, dont feel alone man theres thousands of people who have our addiction. It takes determination and resilience to stop doing what youre doing, but take it day bay day. Replace your addiction with a healthy habit. YOU GOT THIS!
     
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  4. Exactly. Associating the idea of 'me' with an image is only a part of who we are. I may stop using mirrors. I'm getting older anyway so what's the point.
     
  5. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    So happy to hear from you and know others can relate. What you said is my story to a tee. I'm sitting on 9 days of no P and chat apps and feeling strong as ever. Occasionally I get triggered but I usually get through it no problem by going on nofap and doing other healthy practices. Thank you again for your comment and support.
     
  6. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    Thank you! I'm still going strong and feeling great!
     
  7. upgrade2.0

    upgrade2.0 Fapstronaut

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    Dont forget, you CANT do this alone. I tried. It does not work. This forum is a GREAT step. Just by being here shows commitment. Well done. You should also check out this webinar. It is of such a great help. Im posting it as a general topic as well to spread the word.

    We have two webinars scheduled this week, where you can interact with experts on addiction and recovery. The webinars are free, and all are welcome. This week's sessions include:

     
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  8. GeorgeJetson

    GeorgeJetson Fapstronaut

    Thanks for the support @upgrade2.0 ! I greatly appreciate it.
     

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