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Masturbating While soft?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by TheJetDude44, May 24, 2020.

  1. TheJetDude44

    TheJetDude44 Fapstronaut

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    I have developed the habit of masturbating while soft just to get off. It has gotten to the point that masturbating isn't even about pleasure anymore its just about reaching orgasm and getting that hit of dopamine. My body does not get aroused to porn or when I touch myself and every time I still end up masturbating even though im soft. I was on a nopmo streak and it got ruined by a run away effect like mentioned before where any thought of orgasm triggers me to get off no matter what. I really need some help with this and any insights on anyone with a similar situations.
     
  2. Karnakavach555

    Karnakavach555 Fapstronaut

    It is because porn has messed up your mind and body. But ok.
    Complete 90 days challenge. It will be ok.
     
    Last edited: May 24, 2020
  3. GeeJ

    GeeJ Fapstronaut

    I can not really get hard fully with my meds but I still did it soft in past,
     
  4. drISlittle

    drISlittle Fapstronaut

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    You'll just need to keep doing your best man. One of the first times I took my meds for ADHD, Vyvanse, I masturbated and could not get hard. I masturbated for sometimes 4-8 hours. It took me that long to cum and when I finally did, it sucked, it was the most unsatisfying orgasm. You gotta work through it. Stop touching it, stop looking at porn, and even though its embarrassing, go to a doctor, and get some tests done. Get full bloodwork done, get your test levels checked etc. See if there's any other factors at work. if not its mental and you'll need to overcome like the rest of us do.
     
  5. Liven

    Liven Fapstronaut

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    I have the same issue, its really horrible. I hope quitting porn and masturbation can help.
     
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  6. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    LoveIsAllWeNeed Fapstronaut

    That's typical for any addiction. I'm afraid there's only one solution: get clean. Then all these issues will probably be resolved. Of course you might run into deeper problems that you need to address, as this was obscured by the addiction. Healing takes time, but it surely pays off.
     
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  7. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    When I first got into masturbating, even before I ever watched porn, this is how I did it. I would even ejaculate while soft. I thought I was the only one. I am glad to hear I am not.

    Try your best to not watch porn and don't touch yourself. I know that is easier said then done but try for a few days at a time. Then add a few more. Soon it'll be easier and easier to climb the mountain of NoFap!
     
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