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Masturbation can be very healthy this is how

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by modern milarepa, Jun 11, 2021.

  1. For me sex is only a fantasy right now. The blessed ones I feel will have it every single day and numerous times of course. I saw this couple at my retail job and they were looking at “toys” of course they were a fit couple which made it obvious; I feel some people are just blessed with sex or the ability to grasp it.
     
  2. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    What will Goku say of this smh
    Sex is fine dude but is not a big deal
     
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  3. I’m not saying I need it or want it. I’m just stating it’s only a fantasy. Yes... Goku would not be appealed at my thinking process. I know he is of pure of heart.
     
  4. Redemptionisrequired

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    You're not substituting it for something else, you're substituting it for more of the same. Edging is edging, regardless of what name it goes under, call it hand of god or call it the five knuckle shuffle, at the end of the day that is edging and to an addicts wired brain, eventually that will lead to full blown PMO. On top of the constant flare of dopamine they'll be hit with whilst edging for 30 mins.



    Also, not one person, not one, ridiculed you. I'm surprised that someone like you is so unable to handle valid criticism very well. The criticism for your post. Not for your being.
     
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  5. runksoneck

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    Controlling how? Just with your mind or kind of transmuting that energy into other things?

    Are you religious?
     
  6. modern milarepa

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    Not really, relax bro anger makes wet dreams and ejaculation more easy to happen. I'm not being offended or anything I'm just giving arguments to my thesis. You can think and say as you please.
     
  7. modern milarepa

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    I don't do anything. I'm like this right now. It's the result of 20 years of practice. Why don't you go and check my threads I explain all the methods I have used.
     
  8. modern milarepa

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    I'm a zen Buddhist
     
  9. Redemptionisrequired

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    I am calm bro and not angry at all. I already know this as it's happened to me once months ago. Meditation has helped alleviate disruptive emotions. There were none in this case.

    Enjoy your Saturday.
     
  10. DeeJ4y

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    I tried this, ended up having lower back pain, something that occurs if I get aroused for too long. I guess I would have to practice this more. I did focus on breathing and did it for a while without any fantasizing or the feeling of lust - calm. It probably is not for me, but during sex I think that focusing on breathing can be beneficial to prevent PE. I think that I am better off without this masturbation tactic, maybe it helps someone.
     
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  11. Bon-Bon XO

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    Might I give you a refreshing point of view:





    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqgX7x-qPck
     
  12. Bon-Bon XO

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    Also, he's talking about tantric masturbation, a form of masturbation in which porn isn't used, and there is no orgasm, therefore, the benifits of NoFap and the energy from No O is still retained.
     
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  14. Bon-Bon XO

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    You're forgetting that porn is the real enemy, masturbation has the potential to be beneficial, I can masturbate in a healthy way, yet I had a Porn addiction for 10 years, failed quitting for 3 years. I try No PMO after some of my relapses, but it always leads to a shorter streak.
     
  15. Bon-Bon XO

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    Thank you!
     
  16. Bon-Bon XO

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    And the view of many others!
     
  17. Bon-Bon XO

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    Actually, tantra can be used to quit porn
     
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  18. Bon-Bon XO

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    Exactly, you're supposed to transmute the energy, not suppress it.
     
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  19. Bon-Bon XO

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    Congrats on 146 Days! I'm proud of you! We all are!
     
  20. Bon-Bon XO

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    Hey buddy, I felt kinda lonely in the No Porn club, glad to see I'm not the only one who has only quit porn. I am curious, what is YOUR reason for only doing No P and not No PM or No PMO!
    Just curious, congrats, btw!
     

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