Masturbation in texting

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Darkisor, Apr 16, 2019.

  1. Darkisor

    Darkisor Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone,

    I have a problem I am already 23 years old I got 3 partners by still I wasn't able to have sex with them, I have a erectile dysfunction. When I am with my partner my penis is not hard enough, I feel like I am not horny enough for having sex, like I am stressed... but when I am alone I feel more horny, when I am texting with her about imaging how we would like having sex everything is fine, my penis is hard...

    I would like to know if I have to stop texting her about horny stuff ?

    I already stoped porn for like 6 mouths but I usually masturbate when we text... it's very annoying imagining all stuff and not be able to do it in real or not being horny enough for that... what should I do ...? I think that if I will be horny enough with her like I am alone everything will be fine, but I need some advices...
     
  2. Savagepatty

    Savagepatty New Fapstronaut

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    Hhmmm maybe when you two are together you aren't relaxed like when you are alone?

    Perhaps try focusing on the fourplay and all the things you said you wanted to do.

    Arousal is mostly mental and since you get rock hard when you are using your imagination the issue obviously isnt physical.

    So my advice is this.
    1. Don't masterbate when texting her but text her like you are, the anticipation will enhance your desire.

    2. When you are with her dont think about how hard you are, but rather get lost in her body and connect with her on the primal 5 sences level.

    QFocus on the feel of her skin, the taste of her lips and body, listen to her breath and the sounds she is makeing and the desire and passion in her eyes.
    Take her like you haven't seen a woman in decades and get lost in the experience.
    Let go of your worries and your stress and just enjoy the moment.
    Do that and your cock will rock her sox off and you will also have the best orgasm you have felt in a long time.

    TL;DR
    Focus on the sensations and enjoy her body not worry about how hard you are.

    If that dosen't work than start discussing kinks or fetishes you may wanna try.
    I have a thing for girls with the nekomimi ears and fluffy tail butt plugs lol.
    Never fails to get me hard :p
     
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  3. Darkisor

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    But is it necessary to masturbate ? My girlfriend is living abroad right now so we don't see each other too often, like once a month. Do I need to not masturbate at all? It's pretty difficult since we are texting...
     
  4. IGY

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    Yes, you have to stop sexting. SEXTING IS PORN!
    This is terrible advice. o_O Darkisor getting huge releases of dopamine from written erotic content. :eek: You must stop this!
     
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  5. IGY

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    The most effective way to recover is NO porn; NO masturbation; NO orgasm. You have to leave your penis alone buddy.
     
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  6. Darkisor

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    So no masturbation at all ? masturbate is so bad?
     
  7. Darkisor

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    What would change if like I stop masturbate for a long time?
     
  8. IGY

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    Your ED would go away. You gotta stop beating your meat man. :rolleyes:
     
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  9. Darkisor

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    Okay ! thank you ! But just want to know how it works, I saw a doctor he told me that masturbation doesn't play a role in that, he said that for man it's even good to masturbate... that's why I am a little lost ...
     
  10. IGY

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    That isn't surprising as almost all doctors do not believe that porn causes erectile dysfunction. But when you read the testimonies of people on NoFap, you realise that the truth is that porn induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) is real. :(
     
  11. Darkisor

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    It worked for you?
     
  12. IGY

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    My ED is not porn induced. It is caused by illness.
     

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