Masturbation Reset

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by PrinceOfPersiaWW, May 31, 2020.

  1. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Hello everyone on NoFap! I am a boy of 16 years and I discovered how to fap last year. I had left it for 4 months but relapsed on December 2019 and after that each month i was Fapping. During this lockdown I couldn't control it and started fapping. I left fapping on 10th May but today i.e 31 May I again relapsed and I'm really depressed. Please help me.
     
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  3. Igoumah

    Igoumah Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry bro, this usually happens..
    Forget the bad past and try to start a new life..
    Me too I just started and I believe that I resist..
    Try challege a freind it's so useful..
    Good luck !!
     
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  4. Welcome to the community :) wish you all the best on your journey
     
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  5. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Thank you to everyone who liked my thread and plied to me, I feel more motivated because of you all. ALL THE BEST TO EVERYONE
     
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  6. PrinceOfPersiaWW

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    Oh No, I again relapsed today just 2 days and then..... I'm feeling verry depressed, I am feeling I am good for nothing, just a piece of trash. Please help me I might not control my emotions. I am loosing the taste of life. It feels very dark and lonely. Pleae reply friends I am losing all hopes
     
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  7. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    LoveIsAllWeNeed Fapstronaut

    Hi @PrinceOfPersiaWW, I noticed you're sixteen and have been starting PMO'ing not too long ago which I think may help you since your mind isn't programmed for decades like mine. However, it's important to learn to be aware of your thoughts and ideas that get you to relaps. I call these mind tricks since they are BS and just get you further in trouble. Search this forum for mindfulness and meditation. This can really help you get some space between you and your mind.
    Also, I suggest you go out more, meet friends, socialize, do some walking, running, exercising or stuff like that. Getting out of your mind into your body is vital and filling up your time with positive activities will make you feel good about yourself.
    See every relapse as a learning experience (see my avatar) and keep going, my friend. You're young and have your whole life before you and it will be amazing if you learn to stop yourself from relapsing. Read success stories here at this forum and set up your own journal in which you post your progress. This will keep you aware of what you are doing and see your mind at work while it is trying to trick you.
     
  8. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Thank You sir for your kind response
     
  9. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Hello everyone, I have relapsed again today but without porn and without any pictures. But I masturbated. Is it a failure or an achievement or both?
     
  10. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    LoveIsAllWeNeed Fapstronaut

    It's both. More important: learn from it and get better. See my avatar for how you can see these relapses.
     
  11. thinking_differently

    thinking_differently Fapstronaut

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    You need to stop M.
    I Have almost the same situation as you.
    I killed addiction with P before it got Bad.
    Now I am battling M.

    You haven’t gotten too used to it yet.
    It’s too messy man don’t do it and Don’t waste Your Youth.

    Tell me, why should we Waste our Energy(for which we have to sleep 8 hours a day!) and out Nutrients(For which we eat Thrice a day!) just to look at some attractive woman and Fap, she dosen’t even know about it ??
    It dosen’t make sense, does it?
     
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  12. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Yes sir, You are absolutely right and I have been feeling that I have got a hang of controlling my urges. I feel better and more motivated. I M mostly due to depression and lonliness but finally I am feeling that I am overcoming it.
     
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  13. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Hello everyone, looks like i have gained control over my urges and also on PMO. It's been 8 days and I am feeling great. I have not been frequently able to login because I was busy in my studies. Thank you all for your love and support. It would have been impossible to manage this long without you all.
     
  14. thinking_differently

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    Happy to hear that!
    Also good to know you are busy.

    You have had an important realisation very early in life. You will prosper in life mate!

    Keep going!
    Stay Safe and Stay Strong!
     
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  15. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Thanks for the support sir. I hope I reach 150 days soon.
     
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  16. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    It's almost going to be 15 days, that is half-a month, I usually break my streak in a month, but not this time. I will surpass my previous self. Gotta awake the warrior within.
     
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  17. thinking_differently

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    You’re doing well bro! And you will do better. You do have the strength. You’re on Hard Mode right? Stay on it.
     
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  18. PrinceOfPersiaWW

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    Yes sir!!
     
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  19. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    Hello friends, I wanted to ask all of you, that how to make a journal of my journey here. Can I make this thread as a journal?
     
  20. PrinceOfPersiaWW

    PrinceOfPersiaWW Fapstronaut

    I just wanted to share to all of you that usually, from the past 5 months, whenever I stopped M'ing my longest streak was of 30 days. Please support me in this crucial time, so that I can never relapse, as these days are very crucial to me. Provide me tips please. I always feel it's over but just then after 30 days, my streak ends.
     
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