Maturbation vs real sex vs Porn

For Fapstronauts who are disciples of Christ

  1. I need to ask this, but can you explain to me. Is their a difference between masturbation, real sex, and watching porn. What makes having real sex with a woman, like what God wants us to do feel more pleasurable and enjoyable than masturbating or watching porn?
     
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  2. Tao Jones

    Tao Jones Fapstronaut

    Sex is not primarily about pleasure; it is about connection. In PMO, you take the pleasure of the experience and divorce it from any real human connection. Sex was never intended to be experienced in this way. It breaks the intended design. Thus, all sorts of bad things happen as a result.

    Sex belongs in the confines of a committed "until death do us part" relationship with one other person. Outside of that context, sex leads necessarily and inevitably to pain and hurt for all involved.
     
  3. lol, you had me thinking about something, with all this hooking up and shacking together trends going on in the world right now, I can see why PMO with people keeps getting bigger and worse. But you are right, and I think thats why it's hard for me to let the pleasure part go, because im addicted to the feelings that I get from it which makes me more into an introvert.
     
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  4. Tao Jones

    Tao Jones Fapstronaut

    It is a very great tragedy when the mechanism God designed to draw us into oneness with another human being ends up being the very thing that keeps us unable to ever do so. Sex is an incredibly powerful force. The teen years are when we are to learn self-control, but this often goes neglected. Alas!
     
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  5. You know im glad you mentioned about teens years. Cause as an adolescent at 19 years old, it feels like im being pressured by society in all kinds of different directions. Especially things we watch or happen to see on our computers and TVs have some sort of improper sexual sin that is always the forefront of everything. Then society is pushing us 20yr olds in all kinds of unnatural and rigged up situations that could make us struggle or end up ruining or lives. Besides we only live once on this earth, and i know its either heaven or hell, so im trying to put my life back on the right track but its hard.
     
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  6. Tao Jones

    Tao Jones Fapstronaut

    Everything worth doing is hard. But very, very good! Welcome to the Way of the disciple: There is no other path which leads to Life! :)
     
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  7. vxlccm

    vxlccm Fapstronaut

    You're on the right track. Keep thinking like that. Feeling your way with the eye of faith will not lead you astray, but through narrow gate.
     
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