Or maybe I won't. I don't know. I can never get a guarantee that I'll ever find someone. Neither can I get rid of my worry and shame about being an incel. I have decided to live. Now I just have to make the best of life. The negative thoughts and feelings will come and go, I can let them be there like clouds in the sky, while I focus on what I can control to improve life, myself and the world around me. What are your thoughts about an attitude like this? I guess it's inspired a lot by some eastern philosophy and Acceptance and Commitment therapy.