Meeting girls or being celibate for a while?

The way I see it, there are several reasons that you go hard mode:
1. Your focusing on building yourself again. Porn has destroyed the mind and filled much of ones mind. Time for new habits.
2. Finding a girl is great when starting to quit porn but from my own experience you might end using the girl in place of porn. Whenever your aroused at any image or triggering video you might go to th girl but then what's the point of the reboot? Isn't it to become free from enslavement to sexual thoughts?
3. Once you start to have longer streaks, you'll notice that porn is simply a symptom to an even greater problem. For me it was the ability to respond to emotions such as rejection and worthlessness. So it definitely takes some introspection to gain access to your deeper core.

I wish you great success. One day at a time

Stay clean

 

I'm afraid of the same thing...if I get a girl, I'll just want to have sex...then what's the difference between that and porn? I totally feel you man, it's difficult and I've been struggling with the same issue too. Unfortunately, I don't have a good answer to the issue. Appreciate the response, badeae1. Best of luck to you man.

 

That is very wise advice. It couldn't be stated any better.

 

Now might be a good time to simply take a break from trying to get laid. By all means, continue to talk to girls, but do it without trying to have sex with them. Instead, use this time to brush up on your social skills, get to know them on a deeper level. You might even find someone you want to have a long term relationship with. Just let go of the attachment to sex for a while.

 

GO for it man, no need to abstain from meeting women, conquer world with that energy!!!!