men have it much harder than women!

That's why we were born as men lol. We were created to be stronger than them women.

 

You sound bitter.

 

Lol this a terrible view to have in my opinion I don't have to fear being raped or being physically overpowered by a man plus I don't have to worry as much about who I sleep with and how many because of double standards this notion we have it better than either gender is very dangerous and it sounds like resentment towards women

 

I have been there too. You have to accept that some people got it easier in certain situations. You got some advantages as a man too. Use them and then you will have little bit better view on the world.
We have been fed false songs of equality that real world does not reflect in anyway. Accept the world for what it is or drown yourself in resentment.

 

You're talking about the hotties...

There are girls who fall into the over weight ugly category who can't do a single thing to attract guys. When girls see a guy they like they have to use subtle cues to get their attention, they are always waiting to get approached, and get approached by the wrong kind of guy. Most girls are judged predominantly on the looks and brains later. Their body clocks run out near 30 -35.

You're a guy, consider, when you get older you become more attractive, if you are unattractive you can get girls by building a calm confident personality. Our body clocks never run out, we are judged predominantly by our personalities first, looks later. We can approach any girl we want, if we don't mind about rejection.

Basically, it's swings and round abouts.

If girls are pretty and are aged between 18-30 they enjoy the best. If not guys have the upper hand.

EASILY

 

Good points. I just knew about the body clocks. Basically I think we upperhand women, because we were created first by God. They're made out of our 'ribs'. That's why we need to take care of them instead of pitting them based on their physical features and so on.

 

Wait the OP is 50 something, holy shit.

 

It doesn't make them any happier. In fact, statistically speaking, women with higher partner counts are far more likely to be depressed and discontented than women with lower partner counts.

So make yourself desirable.

 

That's a red herring, in a way. Women must compete against women for male attention and you compete with other men. You don't have to be as desirable as a woman is to a man. You just have to be more desirable than the average guy. It's not hard these days.

Besides, everything commonly experienced becomes blasé. This is why it's typical for frequent porn users to seek out more extreme porn--the vanilla stuff becomes boring. If you were a woman receiving constant attention it would become almost meaningless. You'd need more than just attention to catch your own attention.

Try it. Start a fake dating profile as an highly attractive woman. Receive hundreds of messages a day and dick pics every few minutes. Chances are you'll just get overwhelmed, then annoyed, then numb to it. This is how our brains work.

Constant validation doesn't make their lives happier.

 

I think I traveled back into the dark ages.

 

This is a really dangerous mindset everyone and will only make you more lonely and on top of it, bitter!

Young men, stay away from this thread!

 

Haha