Sex is for making babies, period. Just as food is for energy and fuel. Not for pleasure. If you use them for other reasons such as pleasure, they can ruin your life and make you miserable. Sex is extremely addictive and could destroy your life. I know men who lost their virginities before or even after marriage and now they're sex addicts. I don't know one man that didn't become a sex addict when they lost their virginity. It's the most addictive thing in the world for men, more addictive than heroin. Sex addiction is a horrible thing to live with. Once you lose your virginity, it's over for you. You will never be able to live without craving sex again. You thought PMO cravings are bad?? LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY AND SEE HOW MUCH YOU CRAVE SEX! I know men who have slept with HUNDREDS of women after losing their virginity in a span of a couple years. Prostitutes, one night stands, strippers, bars, clubs, pumping and dumping dozens of girls, stds etc. Is this the kind of life you want? THIS IS WHY YOUR VIRGINITY IS SO POWERFUL!! You're never going to be under the wicked spell of a sex addiction when your virginity is in tact. Fun fact: I've never met a man or a woman that was happy to lose their virginity. Every single person I know who lost their virginity, especially before marriage, regretted it or was indifferent about it. It's always worse than they expected and never lives up to expectations. Sex is the most overrated thing on the planet by far. Also, think about this. Why do we feel awful after an orgasm? I've never felt good after an orgasm. It's because it's for making babies, not for feeling good. Using sex for feeling good is a temporary pleasure that destroys your life in the long run. Just like any other drug. Oh and I forgot to mention escalation! Sex, like any other drug can make you escalate. You start off with having sex with your girlfriend, then you end up having crazy threesomes with strippers. You might be thinking, "Okay, just lose your virginity to your wife when you get married."... sorry to break it to you fellas, but a sex addict is a sex addict. You will still be addicted to sex, with or without your wife. Now what if your wife stops sleeping with you? THEN WHAT?? I'll tell you what, the sex demon will run amuck in your mind and drive you crazy. Also, When you get married to someone and have sex with the same person for years, the Coolidge effect starts kicking in, what does that mean? That means you will want to have sex with other women other than your wife. SO MANY MEN I know have cheated on their SO. Even if you might not think you're capable of doing this, why would you take that chance? Imagine getting married, and having crazy urges and cravings to sleep with other girls. I dont know about you, but I'm not taking that risk! Also, I feel 100x better on nofap, so why would I start having sex and destroy my confidence, motivation, drive and self-control? I love this life of abstinence, so many benefits come from being on nofap! Why would I lose all the benefits I get from nofap? I don't want anything to control my life, I want to be free. Abstinence is the key to a great life fellas. Is this a hard pill to swallow? Absolutely. But the hard things that require lots of work and discipline in life are what make us happy. Not the easy, cheap pleasures. Conclusion: Our virginities are special gentleman. It is dangerous to lose it, because it's like taking heroin. You will always crave it and it will control you for the rest of your days. I don't know about you, but I don't want to be controlled by anything. I want to be free. I don't want to have a leash around my neck. I already know how that feels with PMO controlling me and it has devastated my life. Sex addiction is much worse than PMO, especially if you're in a relationship. FREEDOM AND PEACE OF MIND OVER EVERYTHING. Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed of being a virgin, because the way I see it, we're the lucky ones.