MEN: PLEASE STAY VIRGINS!

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Coak Hakola, Jul 7, 2021.

  1. Coak Hakola

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    Sex is for making babies, period. Just as food is for energy and fuel. Not for pleasure. If you use them for other reasons such as pleasure, they can ruin your life and make you miserable.

    Sex is extremely addictive and could destroy your life. I know men who lost their virginities before or even after marriage and now they're sex addicts. I don't know one man that didn't become a sex addict when they lost their virginity. It's the most addictive thing in the world for men, more addictive than heroin. Sex addiction is a horrible thing to live with. Once you lose your virginity, it's over for you. You will never be able to live without craving sex again. You thought PMO cravings are bad?? LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY AND SEE HOW MUCH YOU CRAVE SEX!

    I know men who have slept with HUNDREDS of women after losing their virginity in a span of a couple years. Prostitutes, one night stands, strippers, bars, clubs, pumping and dumping dozens of girls, stds etc. Is this the kind of life you want? THIS IS WHY YOUR VIRGINITY IS SO POWERFUL!! You're never going to be under the wicked spell of a sex addiction when your virginity is in tact. Fun fact: I've never met a man or a woman that was happy to lose their virginity. Every single person I know who lost their virginity, especially before marriage, regretted it or was indifferent about it. It's always worse than they expected and never lives up to expectations. Sex is the most overrated thing on the planet by far.

    Also, think about this. Why do we feel awful after an orgasm? I've never felt good after an orgasm. It's because it's for making babies, not for feeling good. Using sex for feeling good is a temporary pleasure that destroys your life in the long run. Just like any other drug. Oh and I forgot to mention escalation! Sex, like any other drug can make you escalate. You start off with having sex with your girlfriend, then you end up having crazy threesomes with strippers.

    You might be thinking, "Okay, just lose your virginity to your wife when you get married."... sorry to break it to you fellas, but a sex addict is a sex addict. You will still be addicted to sex, with or without your wife. Now what if your wife stops sleeping with you? THEN WHAT?? I'll tell you what, the sex demon will run amuck in your mind and drive you crazy. Also, When you get married to someone and have sex with the same person for years, the Coolidge effect starts kicking in, what does that mean? That means you will want to have sex with other women other than your wife. SO MANY MEN I know have cheated on their SO. Even if you might not think you're capable of doing this, why would you take that chance? Imagine getting married, and having crazy urges and cravings to sleep with other girls. I dont know about you, but I'm not taking that risk!

    Also, I feel 100x better on nofap, so why would I start having sex and destroy my confidence, motivation, drive and self-control? I love this life of abstinence, so many benefits come from being on nofap! Why would I lose all the benefits I get from nofap? I don't want anything to control my life, I want to be free. Abstinence is the key to a great life fellas. Is this a hard pill to swallow? Absolutely. But the hard things that require lots of work and discipline in life are what make us happy. Not the easy, cheap pleasures.

    Conclusion: Our virginities are special gentleman. It is dangerous to lose it, because it's like taking heroin. You will always crave it and it will control you for the rest of your days. I don't know about you, but I don't want to be controlled by anything. I want to be free. I don't want to have a leash around my neck. I already know how that feels with PMO controlling me and it has devastated my life. Sex addiction is much worse than PMO, especially if you're in a relationship. FREEDOM AND PEACE OF MIND OVER EVERYTHING. Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed of being a virgin, because the way I see it, we're the lucky ones.
     
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  2. Coak Hakola

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    I was shocked by this publication. I am 19 years old and since I turned 15 I always wanted to lose my virginity with my girlfriend, I did not do it because I stopped loving her thanks to the PMO and when I realized that I lost her, I could not get her back. So I'm still a virgin and addicted to PMO, and I was so ignorant that I always thought about having sex with the prettiest women in my town.

    Your writing conveys security for what has been said and I can also corroborate the sex addiction, since I have a cousin who changes his girlfriend every month and leaves them due to the coolidge effect (he has too many sexual relations with different women and they are all cute) That cousin has dropped out of college and his body build is very weak. Although he has many suitors I have always wondered if that is having "good or bad luck"
     
  4. Mr.Tony

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    This topic is very very great, thank you for sharing this thread, I'll read it tomorrow.

    There should be a Full Documentary on how Men are supposed to live in this Era. Oh Boy! when Hollywood teaches you what is the definition of a true: Man! - this is the result a Sex Slavery Addict!

    Thanks for sharing this!
     
  5. better123

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    Ohh Quite coincidentally, I was thinking last week:
    "WHO ON EARTH TOLD ME SEX IS ENJOYABLE? IT IS WHAT I SAW IN P, NEVER HEARD IT. IT IS NOT ENJOYABLE, AND I SHOULD STAY AWAY FROM IT." and you said it: ITS NOT! Sex is the most overrated thing on the planet by far.
    Yes, Perfectly true!! Thanks.
     
  6. Mr.Tony

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    It is overrated for a reason.
     
  7. Lilla_My

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    Why are you guys so afraid of having a lovely sex life with a person you love? Connection is the opposite of addiction. And if I got an €1 for every miserable, porn addicted virgin I've seen on here I could buy an 2018 Audi A7 by now.

    Stay virgin for whatever personal/religious reason you want, but it won't save you from jerking off.
     
  8. Mr.Tony

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    Come on... Men need Seed Retention in order to achieve their full potential. It is the prime reason for success even some competitive Animals - Such as Running Horses.

    Lovely Sex - Is good by the way, but it has to be "Lovely" - Connection - Affection - Intimacy - Love... Most of us had already burned up our Dopamine Receptors due to years of unhealthy Porn Consumption, we need years to heal it up, than things will get back to normal.

    There is a whole generation of men who've been sexual educated in Porn, they never heard of this Lovely Sex.
     
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  9. Mr.Tony

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    This world has became a big lab of human experiments. I bet these men behind Mindgeek and P companies never consumed porn themselves, they know it is very toxic to the human brain, it's called the cooledge effect!
     
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  10. Don't worry, I'm a proud member of United Nations of Virgins United run by Maximbady.
    He's my leader, I follow him.

     
  11. TheCarver

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    will never get a relationship anyway. so not like im gonna lose it anytime soon.
     
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  12. PeterGrip

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    It is true that sex is addictive - maybe even more than most things - but your fatalistic mindset is absurd. Losing my virginity did not change me into a sex crazed person. Obviously there are people who have had sex that can control themselves, are you nuts?

    After having sex for the first time I was extremely relieved. I should note that the sex was not very good, and I did not orgasm. Still, I was finally able to get with a woman. I had worked it up for so many years (lost it at age 26), and afterwards I did not see it as anything special anymore, nor did I crave it the very next day. It was something I had wanted to try for so many years, and I was glad to finally do it. On the note of it not being very good the first time, I have since then had amazing sex with other women, so it's not that I just got scared off.
     
  13. Nikolay von Ohrid

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    that's the truth, nothing else!
     
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    that's the truth, nothing else!
     
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  15. Mr.Tony

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    Every person's body react differently to the same thing, but mostly - People who lose their virginity for pleasure end up seek more and more sex.- which may lead to a very very bad outcome.

    Use your brain before attemping anything stupid, Dopamine will kill your wisdom. Just saying...
     
  16. modern milarepa

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    This thread is so sad and deluded one of the most pathetic and ignorant threads I've ever read.

    But I mean, you don't know better guys this is the result of restrictive moralistic societies and your own delusions.

    Sex is a hard thing to understand for men so I understand you boys. No hate towards you.
     
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  17. modern milarepa

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    This same guys will start to talk about porn, how to attract women, how to have a bigger p*nis in a couple of days.

    You just hate sex because you can't have it and don't understand it or know how to make it healthy.
     
  18. Coak Hakola

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    What? So you're saying getting sex from an SO will save you from jerking off and PMO? That's absolute rubbish. Sex with an SO will just cause the chaser effect, and this is why people never stop pmo even when they get married. If anything, sex will make you MORE addicted to PMO. There are dozens of women on here complaining that their significant others cannot stop watching P and maturbating, and YOUR'E ONE OF THEM! Seriously? I know you know better than that my sister.
     
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  19. Coak Hakola

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    Ladies and gentleman, this is coming from the guy who created a thread entitled, "Sex with 100 women in 1 year." Yea, but were the ones who are ignorant, sad, pathetic, deluded and don't know what we're talking about. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! WOW! You are the exact epitome of what we're all trying to avoid becoming.

    I REST MY CASE.

    I think the real reason you're bashing all of us is because you know sex has you by the balls and controls you, and you're jealous of what we have, which is real freedom and joy. Please do us all a favor and leave.

    Good luck with your sex addiction LMAOOO.

    ps.. you're lucky you deleted that thread because I would have linked it here and exposed your absurd hypocrisy. Pathetic.
     
  20. I have sex and practice not ejaculating, known as Karezza. It has led me to desire PMO far less. This is in addition to having my phone completely blocked. Yes there have been some slip ups. But there is no chaser effect such as what is experienced after masturbating. The experiences are vastly different and not to be compared. Sex with a loving woman is healing and strengthening. It is necessary for a man to feel complete and satisfied within, at least I find it that way. It just feels right and what I was made to do. Ejaculation is not a necessary part of this.
     

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