MEN: PLEASE STAY VIRGINS!

I agree with this. This has been my experience as well. But it depends what kind of sex. It needs to be loving and real, based on two people who really like each other, and not sex that’s solely based on lust (like a ONS, prostitute or just being blinded by lust, ‘conquering’ the girl and not actually being attracted to her character).

If you have good, high quality authentic sex then you realise how boring and one-dimensional PMO really is. During the past six months or so I could hardly gain an erection from screens anymore, but was having great sex with a woman I think I am in love with. Actually I have no business on this forum anymore. Love cured my compulsive PMO habit and sex is a part of that love.

But sex can also become compulsive. It’s something I need to be aware of.

 

These people who hate this thread are blind and do not have sympathy.
Everyone has their own opinions.
Beside, this tag is about ABSTINENCE AND SEMEN RETENTION.
NOT SUCCESSFUL SEX LIFE AND GRATEFUL ORGASM.

 

The sex lovers comments had ruined successfully my mood of reading this thread

 

Well a guy is calling out virgins to stay virgin and saying that having sex makes porn addiction worse or will give you a sex addiction. So if me and the other "sex lover" have a vastly different experience about that then ofcourse we want to share it. Whe don't say anything about semen retention or abstinence, only that real sex can help you overcome porn addiction

 

Thanks for the response.

 

i agree
the coolidge effect makes u jump from woman to woman , very true
also when u orgasm prolactin increases ; i cited this before it is on pubmed
and decreaes ur natural inclination for other activities in life
I just dont think that shaming people for losing their virginity is also very healthy
but amazing post by the way thank you

 

I'm a virgin because I don't want to risk getting an STI. Condoms can break and etc. I've even heard of condoms getting microtears. I just don't value sex enough to want to risk my health. I would only want sex for creating a family. If I'm going to risk my life, I might as well do it for my own kid or two. The sad thing is that my wife can still cheat on me, and then I'd get infected. I've read of couples where infidelity occurs and then the innocent spouse ends up with HIV or herpes. It's horrific.

 

Not wanting to get tangled up with a woman is always a valid argument to remain celibate.