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MEN: PLEASE STAY VIRGINS!

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Hammond Egger, Jul 7, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    @Coak Hakola is a walking contradiction making threads that make not sense and talking about women attraction in the most ridiculous way. This is a thread he made some days ago.

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/something-i-noticed-about-the-two-genders.312618/

    Also if the guy is such a pure creature why is his avatar a narco addicted to cocaine.

    As you can see this guy says one thing and later does the opposite. He has no character. I have nothing against virgins I even made a thread saying how cool being a virgin can be
     
  2. modern milarepa

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  4. BugsBunny555

    BugsBunny555 Fapstronaut

    Its 6:00 am too early for me to debate

    Stay tuned later
     
  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    It's 4am for me. I'm going to meditate
     
  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    If a girl actively talks in a thread, which is rare, and also refuses the premise of the OP(even rarer) you know is mess up.
     
  7. better123

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    I guess we have a difference in beliefs. What you believe is that (and those opposing here): 1) Man cannot live without sex, and you said in a post: "I have seen monks struggle without sex." 2) You feel and have said sex is enjoyable when done in control (some tantra...etc) so embrace it.

    Firstly how are you so sure man cannot live without sex? And second, your idea: removing a thorn using a thorn.

    My beliefs: 1) Man can live without sex and so I can and I will strive for it and I have known monks who are free from sex. 2) And when I am free from PMO and sex, I live so happily, working on myself and raising above, and I have found so many beautiful and ecstatic things in life than PMO, sexual thoughts and women.
    And obviously, as I am a human, with zero exception in the laws of nature, LUST HITS ME TOO (and can make me think how to attract women), and when it hits, I control myself, and I don't fall down, I remain happy, self satisfied, and blissful.
    :)
     
  8. I have to believe you may never have had sex or at least have never had sex with a woman you truly loved and were married to to make a statement like that. The O is very different, astoundingly. And the after effect is very different too. The only thing that is the same is that any O can leave you feeling somewhat drained afterwards. But that can be regulated in a sexual relationship. Karezza is the answer
     
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  9. Roger That! :)
    -J29
     
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  10. Vanquisher12

    Vanquisher12 Fapstronaut

    On one hand, I agree sex can be an addictive thing, and I certainly look down on increased promiscuity as a product of the hedonistic society of today.

    However, sex is only addictive if you actively seek and revel in this degenerate lifestyle. If, on the other hand, you seek a sincere, committed, long-term relationship as I do, then sex is the perfect way to strengthen and deepen the bond you have built with a devoted partner. The reason we humans have orgasms when mating is to encourage us to do so to reproduce, and so long as if you keep lovemaking as something you do only with your beloved, when nobody else is present, then the feelings of pleasure that result will keep you together for the rest of your lives.

    Remember, friends, as humans we all have been given our higher intelligence for a reason - to know when to avoid giving in to our primitive instincts. It is my view that people in general need to practice this a lot more, and so long as they do control such instincts, then on the occasions that control is relaxed, to fulfil the greater good of a long-term commitment as well as your own primal needs, the feelings experienced will not be an eternal hunger for greater pleasure, but a strong, deep satisfaction that tells you that you’ve done something wonderful with the most wonderful person in your life.

    I do not want to be a sex addict, and I also do not want to throw away my virginity to some worthless piece of hot shit I will never meet again, but I also do not want to be a virgin forever. I want to find true emotional intimate fulfilment with a young lady who feels the same way, and I also want to pass on all the knowledge I have learned to offspring continuing my bloodline into the future. Remaining a virgin forever is a mark of failing both of these missions. I do not want to be a failure, and I will not so long as I have breath within me.
     
  11. I still agree to the idea that Sex is for Procreating, Especially and Especially if the man is on the Phase of building himself or pursing his Goal or Dream, Because Big Goals requires focus a lot of it actually!

    Semen Retention helps you Focus, I'm talking from personal experience.

    In my opinion staying a virgin or not depends on someone's life, some can do it and be just fine, others require focus, it really depends because everyone's body is different and everyone's life story is different.

    There is no need for such an argument between two sides, we all view the world from our perspective, it's normal to have disagreements!
     
  12. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    This thread is the ultimate incel party
    IMG_20210709_090045.jpg
     
  13. Losing virginity ( Sexually ) is easy, just have enough money, head to a Bar or a Prostitution HQ or some Redlight Area and that's it!

    It's not honestly a big deal, this seem to me as if someone making a big deal for not masterbating to porn, when it is all available everywhere.

    Again, I don't live in a western society - I'm talking from what i'm seeing here around me! It's not really something make a big deal about! many never complained about this in my country.

    They would prefer a loving relationship over sex with a prostitute.

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    Using people as Sex Objects is the primal reason why i'm on this forums, that habit is unhealthy. I can't burn my dopamine receptors to become a Souless Monster.

    These women are human beings too just like me and you, I did choose to save that ( Lovely Affection and Intimacy to the One ) also, You can't be in love with a prostitute you just met... That's sick.
     
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  14. Hammond Egger

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    @becomingreat @Infidel.48

    Thank you boys for the support.

    It's funny how advising men to remain virgins get's hateful reactions like this. But as others have stated, when @Rosamund does it, everyone agrees, supports and loves her for it. Crazy.

    If you aren't here to contribute to this thread in a positive manner, good bye. Why are you even here? Seriously, if we think it's a virtue to remain a virgin, why are you bashing us for it? It makes no sense at all. Pathetic.

    If anyone hasn't checked this thread out, please do. This is why I advise you boys to remain virgins. This is what sex can do to someone. Btw, this is the same guy who sleeps with girls he meets on tinder and he lost his virginity to a hooker. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/sex-with-100-girls-last-year-and-10-months-no-pmo.304273/
     
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  15. becomingreat

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    I thought you are a humble, supportive, educated man. You act very strange on this topic, trolling like a little boy! I'm sure you can provide logic for your actions.
     
  16. Hammond Egger

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    @Mr.Tony Thank you for the support.

    I agree with you, they act like losing your virginity is only for amazing, attractive men and the virgins are the losers. Like, wtf? It's not hard at all to lose your virginity nowadays LMAO. I know so many men that are losers, ugly, smelly, horrible personalities, short, weird, creepy and they still get laid lol. Just take a look at Modern Milarepa, he sleeps with prostitutes and girls he meets on tinder after a couple minutes meeting them. But they act like only real men can get laid. Okay LOL.

    Boys, ignore the haters on this thread. We have something they will never have. We have our peace of mind, our semen retention benefits, our freedom, our inner tranquility, our drive, motivation, energy, happiness, confidence and so on. The only reason they're hating is because they want us to go down the same miserable path they took.

    MISERY LOVES COMPANY. Plain and simple.
     
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  17. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    When I see madness and someone creating a following to young men approving their own deluded ideas about sexuality I attack.

    This guy is toxic, rude and a bad influence . Maybe you don't see it because he seems like someone who is supporting your own delusions.

    I can't be friendly here as I usually am. I see nothing good from this.
     
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  18. Hammond Egger

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    Ikr LOL.. he's so pissed off because there are men that don't worship sex like he does... and he "claims" to be a Physician. He's acting like a 2 year old LMAO.
     
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  19. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    But I just let it be, I said enough simply because you quote me and I know you I replied. You are free to talk and think whatever you want.

    This battle has no point and I'm not planning on proving anything else. I simply showed my disdain of the thread. You are free to continue in the incel party. I'm not a party pooper.
     
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  20. Hammond Egger

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    Advising men not to lose their virginities because of all the problems it can cause for them is toxic and a bad influence.

    But sleeping with hookers and 100 girls in a year is not?

    I'm gonna let someone else argue with you because you obviously have another agenda, and you're not fooling me at all.
     
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