MEN: PLEASE STAY VIRGINS!

The only reason someone relapses after a long time is because they stop working on themselves and go backwards without noticing it untill they are back at their old vices.

 

I don't agree, you're becoming attached to labels, you can believe what you want.

These labels don't serve anyone and they're not true.

 

Would you also agree that once a sinner always a sinner? I bet you would not if you've repented.

Also there does come a point where you are no longer addicted, and the word addiction needs to be defined here, you need to master the skills that keep you away forever, that's how you'll be free.

Check out @modern milarepa and let me give you this piece of advice, if you want to quit, you better get over this "addiction is forever" nonsense.

Good luck.

 

I will keep learning and improving myself, but that doesn't mean me or anyone who stays away for long periods of time and has mastery over it has an addiction, they may become re-addicted but they had kicked the addiction once in the past already.

It's illogical to think someone who goes years without is still addicted, it's like saying someone who used to be fat and lost all the weight is still fat, they can get fat again but they're no longer fat.

There are people who were former porn addicts who can now watch porn, not feel anything and be in complete control of themselves, they have overcome their addiction, they're no longer addicted, the truth is once you master yourself to a certain extent you're free.

 

Damn, seems like I'll forever be addicted to having lovely serotonin and oxytocin boosting intimacy and bonds with people I really like :/

 

Nature intended for us to be careful about sexual intercourse, because it could always result in a pregnancy. If you had no contraceptives you would be more natural and feeling better as a human being, because you would need to be more responsible with having sex. Always think about what nature intended for us and how our bodies and brains were constructed and work. Mankind lives a life far away from what is natural at all, leading to all forms of sickness, mental and physical.

 

The strength of a man is not measured by his apparent imperviousness to temptation, but by the fact that he comes under strong temptation, yet resists.

 

What's your current streak?

 

I agree with you,
Anything in Our world got sexuality and sexual, clothes , advertising , relations , video , picture , social network and more.
And It is as if we are machines that produce sperm and we have to empty it with constant stimulation!
We aren't an oil wells!
Our Energy is limited!

 

I never implied that one should deliberately place himself in temptation in order to demonstrate his strength. That would certainly be unwise.

The fact is, like it or not, we are all tempted on some point or another. There's no escaping it. But some will feel weak just because they are tempted. Yet, it is not a true demonstration of strength to feel no temptation--that's easy. True strength is shown by the power of the temptation that one resists.

 

Temptation holds no power over me. To allow it to do is, is a CHOICE. We are not victims we are accomplices.

 

Which addictions have you overcome? Why do you talk like you are an authority in sex addiction and semen retention? What experiences gave you this wonderfull all-around unbiased and perfect knowledge? A 10 year SR streak?

I have beat several addictiona: hard drugs, weed, pc games, smoking.

I have overcome all of them. I used discipline, willpower, self-improvement, meditation, active goal setting, ... over a 6 year period to get to this stage. I recently got in one of the worst mental states since a very very long time, and none of these "forever addictions" came back. Now tell me i am an "forever addict"...