Hello, So I met this girl in a bar, I approached her one time, then talked with her again the next week, asked her FB, got a friend accept. We chatted a little on FB. It's been a bunch of days now and I didn't contact her since then. I'm not sure why, but it's as if I'm not interested anymore, while on the other hand I am. And I know she likes me too. Might have to do with the fact that I got sort of a erection problem, now I can get it up fully, but during sex it just weakens during penetration. I have not had sex with her btw, this is just from my previous experiences. I think I also need P to stay aroused and indeed my brain needs to be rewired. The thing is, since she's a bit of a extravert, and I'm more of an introvert, I'm worried she will tell other people when she finds out I have this erection problem and have to use the blue pills for it. I might be thinking too far ahead, I mean, we have not even dated yet, but this thing just keeps going through my head and really holds me back. I'm scared the world will get to know my problem. Btw, I've never had a serious relationship in my life (age 34), so it's like my mind thinks a relationship is all and only about sex. But to be honest with you, I don't know what else I'm supposed to enjoy or let's say 'do' in a relationship anyway. I know, weird, 34 of age, loser, all that. This is how I genuinely feel. I am going to be under treatment for my erection problem but that won't be in until 2 months. Suppose I always felt insecure when it came to women. Basically my question is; how will I know if I can trust her with my problem when it's brought up, and should I continue despite all these worries and inexperience of mine? Thanks for reading.