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MGTOW

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by sombrero23, Nov 10, 2017.

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  1. sombrero23

    sombrero23 Fapstronaut

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    So I wanted to ask you what do you think about MGTOW.

    If you don't know what it is, then I'll write a few words about. MGTOW stands for Men Going Their Own Way. Basically, it's members are men that focus on their own happiness and developing themselves, rather than trying to establish a relationship with a girl.

    I like the idea of remaining independent and making yourself better and better, but the idea of keeping yourself away from maintaining any relationship in order to focus on your well-being seems a bit extreme to me. I mean, come on guys, women are awesome! I know this developed from the situation with feminism in the America, but here in Europe there aren't so many crazy feminists. Also life without having someone by your side seems depressingly empty for me.

    What do you think about it? I'm asking both men and women.
     
  2. HatePorn

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    Its up to the individual I guess. I understand MGTOW's movement, its basically an anti-feminazi....and I kind of like it....seems perfect for me, its a easy life....but I dont take the easy way. I might mistaken...but the more feminazis we will have, the more MGTOWs we will have...and feminazis can go suck their imaginaries cock after that, I am very glad MGTOW exist.
     
  3. STAR DUST

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    I THINK MGTOW HAS SOME VALID POINTS, AND IS A LITTLE PESSIMISTIC AS IT RELATES TO WOMEN. WOMEN ARE NOT THE ENEMY THEY, ARE OUR MOTHERS, DAUGHTERS, AND WIVES. STOP JACKING IT TO THEM ON THE INTERNET BECAUSE YOU HATE THEM, AND GO TO THE NEXT LEVEL WITH ONE IN YOUR REAL LIFE. I WOULD DEFINITELY SAY CUT THAT CRAP OUT OF WHAT YOU WATCH WITH PORN, HONEST BE YOUR SELF GET OUT AND MEET SOME GIRLS, LET YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE KNOW YOU ARE SINGLE AND READY TO MINGLE AND MEET SOME GIRLS ON LEGIT DATING PLACES ON LINE, TO BE HONEST COLD APPROACH IS WIDE OPEN, AS YOU HAVE VERY VERY LITTLE COMPETITION, AS GUYS ARE STUCK IN A VISCOUS CYCLE OF PMO AND WRITING ABOUT THE RELAPSES HERE ON NOFAP.COM. THE WORLD IS YOURS FRIEND THE WORLD IS YOURS FOR THE TAKING FRIEND! I HAVE HAD A TON OF SUCCESS WITH WOMEN IN THE PAST SO IF YOU WANTED ANY INSIGHTS OR OPINIONS, ONLY HIT ME UP.

    PS YOU MADE THE RIGHT CHOICE WITH NOFAP. NOFAP GOOD MGTOW BAD. WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER!
     
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  4. Mankrik

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    I don't care if others do it but it's definitely not for me. The whole reason I started nofap and self betterment is to find a relationship.
     
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  5. STAR DUST

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    TRUST ME FIND AN ORGASM FREQUENCY THAT WORKS FOR YOU. I HAVE AN FREQUENCY SCALE THAT WILL LAUNCH YOU INTO BEAST MODE CHECK IT OUT IN LEVELS OF RETENTION POST MAKE IT YOUR NEW THING TO TALK TO GIRLS. GET A LITTLE BLACK BOOK AND FILL THAT BADBOY UP WITH NUMBERS, AND WATCH THE MAGIC HAPPEN!

    GOOD LUCK FRIEND!
     
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  6. sombrero23

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    @STAR DUST
    First of all, why capslock?
    Second, I don't think MGTOW is about justifying yourself when you're to anxious to ask a girl out, but you're saying something like "I'm going my own way". I think it appeared after a frustration with the situation of gender equality in modern western society. I'm thinking that this equality balance starts to lean in favour of women. There are so many cases, when a woman accuses a man of a rape, even there wasn't a one, or a father is denied the right to visit his children, because the mother falsly accused him of domestic violence, shedding tears. But maybe I'm wrong
     
  7. STAR DUST

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    I GET THAT A LOT ITS JUST MY THING LOL AGAIN THERE ARE SOME VALID POINTS, IN MY OPIONION THOSE ISSUES ARE WEIGHTED SEPERATE FROM MGTOW.
     
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  8. sombrero23

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    Yeah, I agree with you on that, there are some fanatics there. Still, I respect NoFap more, it focuses on improving yourself without pointing which sex is guilty.
     
  9. TheLoneDanger

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    It just seems like another self-serving special interest group. I mean, is it really worth declaring that you live a slightly alternative lifestyle from the norm? Isn’t it enough to just make this choice and go about your business? I don’t see anything wrong with this lifestyle, but I also don’t see anything spectacular about it.

    It reminds me of the joke: ‘A vegan, an atheist, and a cross-fitter walk into a bar. I only know because they told everyone within five minutes’. I don’t know why everyone needs to feel so special these days.
     
  10. MLMVSS

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    MGTOW is just feminism for another group of people. As with extreme feminism, extreme MGTOW movements are meant to split up the essential family unit and categorize people by what they are. Just because it's against feminism doesn't mean MGTOW is a good movement.

    Identity politics and political correctness are the two evils against an advancing society, and both groups do just that.

    That said, there are valid points. Just as there's areas females don't benefit from, there's also areas where males don't (like divorce courts).
     
  11. MLMVSS

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    There's inequality on both sides that should definitely be looked at depending on the context. It's just more "cool" and politically correct these days to focus on those against women, while conveniently ignoring the 5-10x higher suicide rates in men than in women. I'm not saying it's bad to help women—it definitely is a fantastic goal to have, and I wholeheartedly support merit-based equal opportunities for all regardless of gender or race—but it's also wrong to claim that nothing goes against men.
     
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  12. Buzz Lightyear

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    It is very attractive to a woman if a man is strong, independent, and with his own thing going on. Therefore, every attractive man will have a core of 'MGTOW' - women will not be his core pursuit, but will rather be something peripheral to his ultimate concerns [this should be a natural attribute... it is about masculinity not ideology]. A woman may, or may not, come into his life; in refusing to put women on a pedestal, women, in the abstract, are not the central focus either way. Given the collapse in 'quality' of women, due in large part to social media, this is crucial.

    Now if you happen to meet a particular woman that you fall in love with that is a different story. By not over-valuing women to begin with, you will be enabled to heavily screen women for the worthy one.
     
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  13. Gotham Outlaw

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    I like the idea of self improvement. I think everyone here can agree with that point. I discovered mgtow on YouTube. I saw the acronym and wanted to know more. After watching a few videos it seemed like it was a bunch of guys pulling clips from the internet and calling women cunts. I learned later that not all mgtows are like that. I would treat it like I would feminism in that some are okay and others are crazy. I think there are still good women out there who want to be with self improving men.
     
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  14. I’m MGTOW and I have way more problem Psychological/Spiritual than worry little thing such as relantionship,in my opinion if you’re not happy with yourself and trying to get a relantionship then you shouldn’t be in a relantionship.
     
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  15. AOC is so much better than MGTOW!
     
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  16. What’s AOC?
     
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  17. sombrero23

    sombrero23 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, I was going to ask the same question
     
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  19. I support men focusing on themselves and not letting waste women be a distraction. Also protecting assets from marriage. But as a movement I think a lot of the guys are just pessimistic or hurt, and just like bashing women in general. A good woman is a great thing, the only problem is that they're very rare. So focusing on yourself and building an empire without chasing the next girl is a good goal, but still have hopes for a good woman.
     
  20. Yanis

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    Well, I know a lot of married and divorced people who are really depressive, and some commited suicide.

    Perfect answer, thanks. I like to put it in these words: if you did not learn to be happy being alone you will never be happy in a relationship for long time.
     
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