My reasons for joining nofap are because I've been suffering from depression for about the last year after my first love left me, and that has affected my libido and the enjoyment levels I used to get from porn and masturbation. I do not have an issue climaxing when I do masturbate but my erection is not as strong and neither is the ejaculation. I am also disappointed in myself after the event. For as long as I can remember I haven't been able to climax without porn or a sexual partner. I have only had 2 sexual partners in my lifetime and have had issues with both on the first few occasions with maintaining erection and reaching climax but this seemed to resolve itself as I became more comfortable with the partner. At this moment, I find myself thinking about porn a lot as I've gone from watching it several times a day to 0. However, I do not experience the same physical activity as I would previously. I think porn has also given me an unrealistic idea on what an attractive women looks like so I am very picky with women I'm attracted to in real life which has made it hard to find a new partner. I want to be able to enjoy a healthy sex life with a new partner and I want to get out and meet someone rather than just being content with being single and masturbating every night. Sorry, bit of a ramble! Thankful for any thoughts/advice.