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Midway 45 days in - Help me overcome my thoughts!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nevergiveup93, May 30, 2018.

  1. nevergiveup93

    nevergiveup93 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all!
    25 yr old here. I am competing my 45 days of NoFap today. I wanted to thank all of the community members here.

    My journey till now had mild flatlines, followed by frequent mild erections. The erections would 5-6 times per day. I had a wet dream last week. Overall my signs of improvement seemed to be healthy and my erections are getting better than before.

    However, the last 2-3 days were not exactly the best days of my NoFap. I was in flatline most of time except for very rare erections. My libido is down. And most important, from the posts I have read, it seems that people who follow nofap brings attention to women. I never really saw any women approaching me and it's kinda disappointing.

    Though, I am determined not to give up, the above symptoms lead to thoughts of my previous sex life. I had my intimate sex and also fantasy ones like threesomes. Recently, I have been getting thoughts of having a bisexual threesome. This freaks me out as I fear this will slow down my rewiring process.

    Also the fact that I am single and there is no partner to help me to reboot puts me in a question that should I wait till I meet my so and have a natural sex.

    I believe there might be many ppl who will be in my state. Pl share your thoughts on how to overcome this.
     

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