It was very distressing because it showed the progression from porn to escorts. I think for me, ( might not distress someone else) it was the wife and her unfailing love, her struggle to maintain the marriage for almost 30 years when she really trusted God and thought God would heal her husband. She not only had so much faith and it grew, but even after she left her faith continued. I was just so sad for her. The other two books are great though! I think you can get intimate deception for free on audio. I liked the hard copy though because I am visual and answering the questions works better if I read it rather than hear it.