More alive and social after relapse?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Balkanray, Jul 8, 2020.

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  1. Balkanray

    Balkanray Fapstronaut

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    I have noticed if i go too long on NoFap and Semen Retention i become more lone wolf. No depression or anything but just self dependant and not interested in other people.

    But when relapse once i feel relaxed and euphoric. I feel alive and more down to earth and it feels really good. Theres many posts about this how people quit NoFap and find a perfect balance. The problem is i dont know how often i should relapse to feel balanced.


    I have hit 500+ days and few times 200+ days. Yet the old me felt more alive and social.

    Porn is bad though. I am mostly talking about relapsing to sex or normal masturbation.
     
  2. SREENII

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    oh..your case is interesting..mine is just opposite..i started nofap mainly to get rid of the social anxiety thats developed due to pmo..btw what was your reason to start nofap?
     
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  3. Balkanray

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    I actually have no idea why i joined NoFap almost 5 years ago. I just somehow read the benefits and got into it.

    I mean its not natural to stay away from sex for too long. Not even animals do it.

    Seriously i had more libido when i was relapsing myself or with a girl than i was on nofap or SR.
     
  4. This is a really difficult question to answer brother, since we do not know your background or situation well (how stressed you are, if you are happy in life now, if you are healthy etc.). All I can say is that the sensation after fapping offers some sort of stress reliever and relaxation which may help you chill a bit and be more cherish.

    However so do drugs. You feel good while trying but on the long run they destroy you.
     
  5. Balkanray

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    It's not that i feel good or bad. I feel really good generally and happy. But i did really go 500+ days on semen retention and not wasting my seed at all. My sex drive was dead and i had no libido or no interest in girls. It wasn't a flatline though.

    I remember having sex with my ex girlfriend and i kept wanting more and more. Before i wasn't even interested in having sex and i actually had like semi boners with her. But then after i ejaculated i kept wanting more and more and i felt like my sex drive was back. I felt horny and my boners were stronger than before. Read these 2 links and it's comments so you might understand better?

    https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2gwpnf/a_model_for_the_cause_of_the_decline_of_the/

    https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/2h0q3p/must_read_why_the_powers_fade_and_how_to_get_them/
     
  6. Captain!

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    I don't know what retention you actually do but we don't experience what you say and this just promote to indulge again to the trap of PMO, which we know that is highly addictive.
     
  7. StarRider

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    You didn't, you made your sleeper throwaway account on May 29th, 2019 and posted nothing. Then on June 15, 2020 you started creating three troll threads at once, and two another yesterday.

    This should get moderated.
     
  8. Balkanray

    Balkanray Fapstronaut

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    You must be proud to be very idiotic person.

    Check my reddit account '' BalkanRay'' it has posts over 4 years ago i believe and there are tons of posts.
     

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