More Feminism and Gender Politics Feedback Needed

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  1. AGenuineLover

    AGenuineLover Fapstronaut

    I'm chill.

    Don't I seem chill?

    I thought that we were all chill.

    Is somebody not chill?

    Now you're making me worried.
     
  2. NoBrainer

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    The latter. Although don't try and accuse me that I'm a man hater or some shit like that. :rolleyes:
     
  3. NoBrainer

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    If I could unread this whole thing, that'd be great too. :D Reading the responses is too depressing - ie how people on this site think so bipolarly.. :rolleyes:
     
  4. I don't think you understood my message. I was just laughing at the fact that you implied a person can only be either a sexist or a feminist
     
  5. Drewdee446

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    I probably shouldn't even go here but I will. I consider myself a strong advocate for women's rights and felt by watching hardcore porn I was being a hypocrite. I felt like I was exploiting women by my behavior. That's just my view. I also decided to detox from porn to heal myself and become less desensitized to real women in terms of looks etc.
     
  6. HereAndThere

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    Wtf? If a woman have faulty personal boundaries it isnt mans fault. She can walk away. Women featured in porn are usually payed more than their male counterparts and again: its their personal choice. If you want to talk about women victims talk about middle eastern sex slaves.
     
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  7. Jen@8675309

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    I'm not saying it's man's fault...I'm saying men aren't the only victims of porn. You're completely missing the point I was trying to make if you think porn salaries have anything to do with this.
     
  8. HereAndThere

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    Did you mean that porn is damaging to men and women because it is an unnatural form of sexual stimulation for men which have the potential to damage healthy psychological functioning(and their relationships which women are a part of) and it humiliates and denigrates women by objectification and sexualization? But think about it. Can you really blame porn? Thats like blaming the hammer factory for the bad things that a person can do with a hammer and then blame it for employing people in that factory.
     
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  9. Jen@8675309

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    Nope. I'm not BLAMING anyone or anything. Simply stating...again...that women are affected by porn in addition to men.
     
  10. HereAndThere

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    How specifically?
     
  11. Jen@8675309

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    Women are affected when their partners are addicted to porn and it has a negative impact on their relationships. Women are affected by porn when they are addicted to it. Women are affected by porn when they're victimized by the industry. Women are affected by porn when it shapes societal attitudes towards what the expected behavior or appearance of women "should" be. Women are affected by porn when it promotes rape culture. Women are affected by porn when they feel pressured to look or act how women are portrayed in porn.

    Now....I'm NOT saying this is all men's fault; I'm not turning this into a battle over the different roles the sexes play in porn. The original point in this thread was that men are affected far more than women and I'm simply disputing this statement. None of the reasons I listed above are refutable.
     
  12. Drewdee446

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    Many women in the industry has histories of abuse etc. I'm not saying all. Again I just see a contradiction in my feelings towards women's right and porn. That's my personal belief. I am not asking anyone to agree with me.
     
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  13. HereAndThere

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    I love the "none of what i said is refutable tag". Makes me feel secure in authority :p. Carry on!
     
  14. Jen@8675309

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    This will be my last post because this is quickly becoming a waste of time. It's not refutable in the sense that those are all truthful common-sense statements and no reasonable person would disagree with those stances. I'm not forbidding anyone to try to refute them...
     

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