Mother or girlfriend

There is always time to let opinions change. Your mom might come to like your gf, but your gf might need to adapt to your family a bit and show willingness to be everything your mom wants for you and more, despite her not being Syrian. We are all human beings and it only takes us further from godliness to treat one another by our nationalities. Would god care what country your future wife is from if she has a good heart and intentions?