I have found this post on Reddit, so it is not my post but it is a fascinating point of view and I think everyone needs to read this. 1.OPTION-SCARCITY: You get horny,you think about sex,you open porn,you touch your dick for some minutes and VOILÀ,YOUR BALLS JUST GOT DRAINED. You just used the most powerfull energy in the universe for 2 seconds of pleasure.On top of that you are creating a relation in your subconsciouss between VAGINAS and PLEASURE. Now everytime you feel unsatisfied and like life is a burden you NEED VAGINAS,because you want PLEASURE and you feel miserable without that pleasure.Just like a crackhead without crack. You are in a mental state of absolute SCARCITY. Women can sense that in you when you relate to them,they can feel the adictive lust in your eyes,the neediness in your voice and the inexistence of life force in your body.You are behaving more feminine than them and their pussis get drier than the sahara desert.You are lacking testosterone that comes from your semen producing balls,they are so fucking drained that they don't have energy to create any testosterone and your are a estrogenic zombie. In the very unusual case that some chick gets atracted to you,you desesperately fuck her without even getting to know her.All that matters is she has a vagina and she wants to fuck.You bust out another load to feel more drained. 2.OPTION-ABUNDANCE You get horny, you breathe deep and transmute the sexual energy into your higher chakras and VOILÀ, you start using that energy to work on your purpose, work on your body, write a book, make some wise investments, etcetera. You just used the most powerfull energy in the universe for long term pleasure and short term sacrifice. On top of that you are creating a relation in your subconsciouss between NOT BUSTING A NUT and PLEASURE. You are in a mental state of absolute ABUNDANCE. Woman can sense that when you relate to them, they can feel the passion in your eyes, the manliness in your voice and the incredible life force in your body. You are behaving more masculine than them and just like a magnet their feminine energies are getting drawn to you and their pussis get wetter than Niagara falls. You are a testosterone beast. You are aware of the wide sea of Woman at your selection but you don't rush in the process because you value more than just looks.In the case you have sex with one you can totally enjoy the act of sex without an orgasm and she absolutely enjoys the act, you end with your energy storage throw the roof and a more calmed masculine drive because the feminine energy soothes. In the case that you have been a long time without ejaculating and feel like ejaculating you do it once, but without becoming adicted to it. EVERYDAY OF EXISTANCE WE ARE CHOOSING EITHER OPTION 1 OR 2, SO CHOOSE WISELY AND KNOW THAT EVERY ACTION HAS A REACTION. STAY STRONG RETAINERS, PEACE.