My 1st attempt at NoFap, successfully abstained for 90 days

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by | Nico |, May 17, 2020.

  1. Good morning / Afternoon brother and sisters, i hope youre all doing well.

    Iam here to share my 90 day no PMO success story. I hope this won't bore you to death, and i hope that whoever is reading this will get inspired to start their own journey as well :)

    So when/how i became an addict ? I dont really remember who or what gave me the idea to search for P. But i remember that stuff was everywhere, tv, school, friends, billboards etc.. and of course curiosity kicked in and i had to search for it. The first time i ever saw P was at the age of 8 and started Mo'ing at the age of 9. I was doing it multiple times a day for over 11 years.

    I became extremely shy, stressed, weak, no confidence at all, PMO pretty much ruined my entire childhood/ teenage life. I didnt do well in school, barely had any friends, Never had a girlfriend or barely even spoke to a girl. The addiction got worse when i got my hands on a credit card and some money i began spending it on PMO related things, not gonna go into detail but i have probably spent hunders of pounds on things that i absolutely did not need and that did me more harm than good, and i developed some fetishes along the way.

    When/How did i realise i was addicted ? Its a very long story but I'll make it short. So i never professed any religion, i just knew that god existed because thats what i was taught in school and by my parents. At the age of 18 i joined the LDS church and thats where i came to know about the law of chastity so basically no sex before marriage and no PMO at all. I was shocked, angry, confused because i knew that i couldn't give it up or even discuss it with anyone. But since i decided to be part of the chruch i wanted to do my best in keeping the commandments and become the best version of myself.

    I tried to quit, though i was still in denial. I was strongly prompted to confess this to my bishop and few weeks later to my parents. They were and still are very supportive about it and iam eternally grateful for that but unfortunately i wasnt successful at giving it up. Definitely took some weight off my shoulders but i was still stuck. I think my best streak was like 2 or 3 days max. The problem was that i didnt know anything about the side effects of PMO, it didn't even cross my mind to look it up online, so for me it was normal and thats why i had so much trouble quitting.

    So after struggling for months on the 17th of February i finally had the biggest desire to quit. Shortly after i recieved a revelation from God. It felt as if someone just whispered nofap into my ear. I was shocked but very intrigued so i quickly googled it and the first website i clicked on was nofap, of course ;) I knew right away that this was the last and only chance i had at quitting, so without hesitation i signed up and began reading, i was filled with hope and joy. I thanked the Lord for showing me the way. When i finally knew what nofap was all about i told myself that i have to take this very seriously and so i did. With the Lords help and the wonderful people of this community i managed to stay clean from Day 1.

    It definitely wasn't easy, the first 3 weeks were pretty much hell. Ive spent 2 weeks just reading peoples stories, educating myself, fighting urges, going out a lot just to distract myself as much as possible, but sometimes i was just felt to fight the urges head on. Fortunately i was able to resist. I had to talk myself out of it many times, prayed a lot etc.

    After a month or so everything calmed down and i was able to focus more on my goals. Then the covid 19 lockdown started so i was stuck at home with my parents. I started working out again, after 2 months i started the 30 day cold shower challenge which i successfully completed yesterday. Uninstalled all social media except youtube because i was getting tempted quite frequently, and honestly that was the best decision i have made in years. The lockdown was quite a blessing for me because i didn't have any temptations around me so it was quite easy to abstain, only thing i had to deal with was fantasizing and staying away from the internet.

    It finally felt like i was getting my life back. From day 60 to 70 everything was perfect i had 0 urges, 0 dirty thoughts, i was in heaven. From day 80 to 90 it all went downhill, had some urges, i felt down but i pushed through it. I mean its pretty hard to feel down when you have such an amazing community cheering you on everyday. So massive thanks to everyone.

    Ok, some Nofap Benefits :)

    - No more guilt and shame

    - Clarity of mind

    - Way more energy and confidence

    - More facial hair

    - Less sleep, easier to get up

    - Less stress and anxiety

    - More comfortable prayers

    - Proud to be a Fapstronaut

    Did i fully recover after 90 days ? Of course not, i still have a long journey ahead of me, its definitely a lot easier to live without PMO thats for sure. This 90 day reboot was just to get me started, my foundation if you like. I still struggle with urges sometimes, i have doubts but with all the experiences i had its quite hard to fall back.

    Future plans on NoFap ? I will keep on going. Ill carry on with my daily journal, i will stay active as much as possible, i recieved tons of support from you guys so now its my turn to give it all back.

    Well, thats all i have for you brothers and sisters. I probably didn't mention everything so apologies if this was too short or it didn't make sense at all, iam terrible at writing anything especially when its about me.

    Its been an incredible journey one that i will never forget, ive had the privilege to get to know many amazing people, made ton of new friends. Iam truly grateful for each and every single one of you. God bless you all.

    And If any of you reading have any questions please dont hesitate to ask.

    I kind of summarised my whole journal above, but if you're interested in the full verison, here's the link

    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/overcoming-pmo-addiction.267554/

    Take care everyone :)
     
  2. Eugene Yasenev

    Eugene Yasenev Fapstronaut

    This is really cool, congratulations)
     
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  3. LoveIsAllWeNeed

    LoveIsAllWeNeed Fapstronaut

  4. Thank you :)
    Thank you i appreciate it :)
     
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  5. |DEKU|

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    You already know what I think about you my man but I will still say it in case you forgot it: you are truly a legend, and a great friend. Massive congratulations on your journey Nico. What you have achieved is amazing and the best is that I was there since the beginning, so I saw you growing and becoming the man you deserve to be. You got me motivated just like all the dudes and girls who will read this success story, and I hope they will be a lot. ;)

    You said it yourself: this journey isn't over yet. Indeed, but I'm sure you already did a big part of it my friend, and you can definitely be proud of yourself.

    Strive for more and enjoy the journey at the same time. Freedom is within reach Nico, and you already showed to this addiction who is the boss.

    So stay strong, stay a beast, stay awesome, and more importantly, stay blessed. :)
     
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  6. Thank you so much for everything deku :) i truly appreciate all your messages. Stay awesome brother.
     
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  7. This is an amazing story Nico! I only came to Nofap a few days ago and noticed you on a few of the threads commenting on some similar topics.. but reading this I was blown away at your experience and the lengths you have come! I'm so happy to be part of a community with people like you. Looking forward to hearing about more streaks, no doubt once lockdown eases you will probably experience more change in yourself when you step out there.

    Cheers for the support
     
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  8. Thank you for stopping by and writing this motivating comment :) it means a lot. Its great you could join us, i look forward seeing you around here. Take care.
     
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  9. Congratulations Nico. I don't have much to say, but that you deserve it. You've fought hard and never given up. You've been a great friend to me since I joined NoFap, so I can only thank you for letting me be part of your journey :)
     
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  10. mateg911

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    Hey man! I'm really happy for you! Stay awesome, keep going and God bless you! With him you can achieve anything and you are the true example for that. ;)
     
  11. Thank you fenris :) iam glad youre part of this community. You have helped me many times on this journey, god bleds you.
    Thank you mateg, god bless you too my friend ;)
     
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  12. Subzero-32

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    Congratulations Nico! You are such an inspiring person
    Now it's time to think about your higher purpose, the real life goals you want to achieve, as you continue with your journey towards complete healing of body and mind
    You deserve the best man, goodluck
     
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  13. Thank you subzero :)
     
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  14. Congratulations on your 90 days of being the man you’ve wanted to be!
    It looks like you did everything in your power to get this far, that’s inspirational. Also you have a good heart.
    Have a lovely day : )
     
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  15. Thank you CC :) you have a lovely day as well.
     
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  16. Мобильный

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    Great job friend. Congratulations and best wishes. Keep it up.
     
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  17. Thank you :)
     
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  18. IGY

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    My dear friend Nico, our good buddy @|DEKU| has summed up my thoughts exactly. I endorse every word he's said. :)
    It makes me immensely happy and proud of you when I see those 90 days. :) A flawless streak - totally awesome! :D
    You are also such a generous, large hearted person. You have been awesome in your support of others. Respect bro! <3

    P.S. Don't forget to phone the pizza dude this evening, haha! :p
     
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  19. Thank you IGY :) and thank you for being here since day 1 brother. It means a lot.
     
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  20. Nico... just be aware that this is the start for u.. like u said the foundation... keep going mate..
    When i started this journey u were the first point of contact for me.
    I believe in you.. n it motivates me too to complete this 90 days or more challenge... all the best for future.
    Now its tym to focus on ur real goal....whichever u have thought of... tc my frnd..
     

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