Hey everybody I need help and advice. I don't know what too do. My boyfriend has a serious porn addiction. He will watch porn in the bathroom telling me he using the bathroom. I found out on his history today he somehow was jerking off at work today. ? He does it if I go anywhere! Especially if he's off all day and I'm not around. I have sex with him a lot. All types. And I don't get it. What does it mean. Am I not attractive? Is he not sexually attracted too me? I need help!!!
My boyfriend has a porn addiction
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Hi @MisZ_j0jo
Welcome here in this community.
I feel with you about your relationship. It's a very sad thing that you've discovered that your boyfriend is using porn.
I think it will help you best if you take a look in the "forum for partners"
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/partner-support.32/
Many people there who can relate to your situation and give you some useful feedback.
Good luck.
Welcome here in this community.
I feel with you about your relationship. It's a very sad thing that you've discovered that your boyfriend is using porn.
I think it will help you best if you take a look in the "forum for partners"
https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?forums/partner-support.32/
Many people there who can relate to your situation and give you some useful feedback.
Good luck.
Roman5531
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No don’t ever feel ur not attractive to him. It has nothing what so ever to do with you ok? Pornography has a big effect on the brain, I’ve been addicted for 8 yrs now. Since I was about 13 I have been hooked. It numbs a lot of the neuro cells in the brain whichever are supposed to release chemicals which help us to feel happy, and sexual feelings. His attraction to you is still there, trust me. He most likely had this addiction before he met you. He will still respect you, and love you, and of course still be attracted to you. But porn is not normal for the brain. Eventually it twists your own reality the more you watch it. But please do not hold it against him. U need to try and help him, be his encouragement. Talk to him about it, heart to heart. It’s not his fault. He needs someone to talk to cause porn is a very difficult thing. Once he goes a long time without it, he will start to learn how to deal with the urges. But do not hold this against him. He needs encouragement, and he needs strength from his girl. I know exactly how he feels. And what it feels like to have serious urges to watch porn and master bate
Firstly, I want to say I totally understand how you are feeling and it feels nice to know I'm not the only one feeling like this. How did this end for you?