My current Dilema

Hey nofapppers I been having these thoughts and feelings that keep coming up and I was hoping to get some advice and input on it.

This girl I met and went to a party with about 8 years ago recently about a month ago sent me a friend request on facebook. I have only hung out with this girl a couple of times I feel like I had a real connection with her though, and I remember her as being a all around pretty chill and cool person. I been really wanting to message her just to see how she's been doing whatever.

So then I get these thoughts of what if she thinks I'm a creep. I have been kinda facebook stalking her and reading all her posts. They seem to be all directed to me maybe I'm just creating something that's not in my head. I live at home with my parents she has a kid what would she want to do with me. I don't have a license or a car just a moped why would she want anything to do with me. Maybe I'm just desperate. I haven't had a girlfriend before and I'm almost 27 so I probably wouldn't know what to do if it did go anywhere. These are thoughts that run through my head, and I cant get past them. I don't what kind of help or advice I'm looking for. Just any of your thoughts or advice would be good.

 

I did message her. It has felt like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. I was overthinking it way too much and using every ounce of energy these past few days to over think it.

This is what made me finally go through with it. She hasn't responded back yet but if she does she does if not I haven't lost anything.

 

Unfortunately I don't think anything will come from it. She still hasn't responded back but its no big deal I'm just glad I got it out of my head and manned up and did it.