My ED problem scared me as hell!

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Shianz01, Jun 9, 2020.

  1. Shianz01

    Shianz01 Fapstronaut

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    Though i had posted earlier on forums , if anyone out there is reading my thread please let me know if you've gone through this and will i ever be healed ? :'( . I'm facing ED and not getting erections from april , i was a moderate porn user like 3 times a week , rarely 2 times a day . My member was extremely well till this april and one night as i was talking to my parter on a call , while there was a good erection as i was usually aroused but as i started fapping my member gone flaccid and i still ejaculated with a semi hard peni.... Frightened alot , i confessed my problem to my partener at that very day . And came through this nofap and Ybop thing on internet but the things depress me and makes me sad is i was well earlier and how it was all sudden took place , after that incident my member is not erecting as am feeling no kegels compression as good as earlier and the sensitivity is also reduced but not that much where im unable to orgasm ... I did a reboot for 20 days in first streak and relapsed in between to check where i am . I got a semi hard boner with porn and stimulation and and ejaculated after 5 minutes .. but from that day am again in a streak of a month now and am worried too much about healing ever .... I don't get random boners now and from past few days am having morning woods sometimes hard sometimes weak . One thing am noticing is that if i stimulate myself with using hands and lying on bed i get an erection but with a soft glans sometime and less sensitivity but as i stand my erection use to fade slowly I've seen that with stimulation on bed i sometime get rock hard but as i said my erection fades away as i stand and during the day my penis no more feels fuller and shrinked , and libido is quite increased but erections are not as earlier :'( please anyone suggest me something ..... I don't want to take that blue pill as it is temporary , i told my GF everything and shes supporting and encouraging me alot to fight this but who knows what the exact probpem is ... Is it pied or not am 20 yrs old and using moderate porn for a long time . My glans is not as firm as earlier and definitely illI follow everything about nofap but i want to know the exact cause because i was on a good diet lean body and going to gym everyday before lockdown ... And i don't think if its testosterone thing because it was sudden and if talk about venous leak then I've read on this site by a member @Daxos that venous leak is very rare and impossible when you are getting proper arousal and erection earlier .... Please i beg you people who can help me and let me know if its curable or not ....
     
  2. Daxos

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    I am 99% sure you just have PIED. You are 20 years old, way too young to have proper medical issues, and it seems that you've had good erections in the past.
    You are showing a lot of PIED symptoms, symptoms that we all have experienced before. I had soft glans too. I had insensitivity too. I had very weak morning wood for months too. I had trouble getting aroused and I had trouble getting it up even with porn. Me, and thousands of other NoFappers have experienced this too.

    What you stated about my statements is wrong. I never said that VL is impossible with proper arousal. People with VL can get very aroused, but since VL is a physiological issue, the erections are absent because of 'mechanical issues', you could say. VL is a disease where your veins and/or tunica albuginea can't hold the blood, and therefore the blood either leaks into the corpora cavernosa or directly away through the veins because the clamps are not working properly. Most cases are that of a faulty tunica though.

    But here is the gist, perhaps 75% of VL cases are congenital and symptoms were present since the very first times the young adult was getting erections. If you are 20 years old, and have had good erections in the past, that means you can't be part of that 75% of VL cases. Well what about the other 20% (I know we are missing 5%, but we will get there). The remaining 20% are cases of old age where VL unfortunately just happened. How it happens, nobody knows, but VL can arise in any man from the age of around 35. The older you get, the higher the chances. If you take a look on VL forums, 90% of the men there are over the age of 40. Getting older has it's problems, and although it is a very small percentage, the older you get, the chance of CL increases slightly. But, since you are 20, you are not part of this 20% group as well.

    So now we have 5% left. 5% of men get VL due to a heavy accident like a car crash where their pelvis was broken and this caused such extensive damage that they have permanent VL. I've read 1 case on this forum of a guy who had exactly that. But as my urologist told me, you need a truly horrifying accident like a car crash to break your pelvis and cause VL because of that.

    So if you haven't had a terrible accident in the past months, I estimate your chances of having VL under 5%. I have been on this forum for years now, and I have had contact with many NoFappers who truly were convinced they had VL, then did 90 days NoFap (bare minmum), and told me they did NOT have VL and just has successful sex with their partners or just random girls.

    1 year ago I thought I had VL too. Now I laugh. I was so scared and lost in terror, that I linked everything to VL or other diseases. Trust me, I also thought I was part of that 1% that unfortunately got VL in some magical way. But I didn't. I did NoFap and around day 60 I started getting monstrous morning wood and that convinced me that VL was impossible. 2 Weeks later I met a girl and had sex. It failed. I was worried again. then 2 weeks later when I invited her for the weekend, I fucked her for hours for 3 days straight. NO ISSUES AT ALL. Did I forget to say **SPOILER ALERT, NSFW MATERIAL**. Well too bad, because I am celebrating my liberation from fear. That weekend, when I was around day 96 or something, I considered myself fully healed from PIED and I let a very nice girl go home very satisfied.

    Forget VL. Go to a urologist or andrologist if you can't stop worrying. Go to a pelvic floor therapist as well, as many PIED cases go hand in hand with pelvic floor issues. I had that too. I had severe PIED accompanied with a very tight pelvic floor which gave me many painful symptoms.

    You can contact me if you have questions, but I can't promise I will respond. I am actually a bit fed up with everyone thinking they are that 1 unlucky guy that has VL hahaha. I know I was one of those guys as well, but since I was liberated from that fear did I fully realize that I was just ill-disciplined to just go 90 days NoFap minimum and wait and see if my fears were reality or not.

    So that is my advice: do NoFap and forget about VL. As hard as it is, it is the right way. Go visit urologists if you can to get a medical opinion. Remember, I am just a retard on the internet saying stuff you can't really accept or discard. I am giving you my experiences, knowledge and advice, but I am only a 23 year old prick. Go visit a specialist. And if the specialist tells you that "it's all in your head"; that means you have PIED, because many medical specialists still don't believe porn is bad for a young man.

    I wish you the best of luck and happiness.
    Strength and honor,

    Daxos
     
  3. Boxerito

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    See if this is helpful

     
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    Thankyou brother for your response , i have already seen this one , and he makes sense , but its really creepy for me moving through this phase , am soo soo much depressed brother :'( , i dontd know whats the exact cause of it and none of my family member knows that what am suffering , they keep shouting , they dontd know am depressed and need someone to help me come out of this situation and depression ....
     
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    I've texted you brother please have a look , i need to talk brother , i really need some support am soo much exhausted :'( .. one more thing , today i placed a call to a sexologist in my area , firstly , he asked me about my problem and he only said that its because of masturbation and nothing else , he asked me to visit his clinic and the expenses for checkup are 1000 indian rs . And he said further treatment will take upto 15000 for this ... So what should i do now ..? I can't manage that much amount , is it necessary to tell my parents all about this .... :( ..or do i continue with nofap...
     
  6. _most.high_

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    if you think that you cant handle the situation on your own, maybe it would be wise to inform your parents, but speaking of myself , i was way too embarrassed. i doubt i have any medical problems , and ill just trust the process. if its absolutely necessary tell them.
     
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  7. Daxos

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    The doctor says it is due to masturbation. I know 1 thing; you need to be absolutely brutal and grotesque to actually damage your penis with masturbation. I'm talking about bending and/or hitting it with blunt objects while masturbating... Other than that, I think he just implied that your masturbation frequency was the cause, which we can tie down together with porn use. If you don't have the money, don't do it. Having a roof over your head and food on the table is more important. Besides, I am still 99% sure it's just PIED (from the case you've brought so far)
     
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    Are you cured already?
     

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