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My EXGF's Trigger

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Moeekr, Apr 29, 2020.

  1. Moeekr

    Moeekr Fapstronaut

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    Hey all,
    first of all, sorry about my english.
    also sorry about being a perv. lol. open mind to get all your comments.

    not sure what is your define for Porn, but for me its mostly
    getting turn on by pictuers of real girls someone's sent me or mostly my last 2 EXGF's pics & vids.
    Im really into Voyeur and I manage to get naked unaware pics & vids (shower/sleeping) of them.
    my rush is to mastrabute to that with other perv's online.
    problem number 1 about that is that risk of that. they dont know about those and thats too risky to share those online.
    2 - I could found myself for DAYS on chat's & forums looking for the right guy to turn on mic & vid, degrade them about normal pics & vids and then the naked ones I took.
    the rush about that, maybe someone is enjoy "your" girl, that fetish is lots of times feel like over me and I cant control that for years.
    Now im trying NoFap for couple of months. was really hard, manage to get for 5 days max.
    finally made 8 days today, after I copied all those files into disk-on-key out of my computer.
    still can do that but harder.
    Anyone got ideas about that?
     
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  2. NCK

    NCK Fapstronaut

    Wow man, that's some serious shit!
    In many countries you can get arrested for that kind of thing.
    You should never share someone's intimate photos or videos online without consent, that's fucked up.
    Sorry to say so, but that's just it.
    You should definitely continue on your journey of Nofap, delete all illegal photos and videos you have (also from the internet if you can), and maybe do some therapy sessions.
     
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  3. Perashar

    Perashar Fapstronaut

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    Have you watched cuck porn becuz that is what's that related to. Voyeurism, cuckoldry and non-monogamy it's all related to that .Plus, dude add trigger warnings.
     
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  4. sorry I am not into voyeur so I can't have a precise answer, but I can assure that the only way in your case is to cut it out this thing. You say it right. It's risky and illegal.
    It will be hard, really hard. You should find something to occupy your time, something really strong.
    Like a sport, or even a your new business. Something and it must be something really great.
    Because you know it better than us how much you're into it and that you need something radical.
    Begin something and don't quit it until your urges about voyeur will fade.
    I know you would like a better answer with some schedule maybe.
    But the answer for every problem in life stay always the same.
    Work on it. Work on it with all yourself
     
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