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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Lagluvr, Mar 26, 2014.

  1. Mar 26, 2014 #1
    Lagluvr

    Lagluvr Fapstronaut

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    Hello all. I don't have much experience with this nofap business but am willing to give it a try. I have a gf that I've decided to only be able to receive sexual gratification only with her. I was wondering if sexting and masturbating to a significant other is allowed? I haven't yet but on nights we spend a part she offers it.
     
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  2. Mar 26, 2014 #2
    johnf

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    It depends how you choose to do your challenge.
     
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  3. Mar 26, 2014 #3
    Lagluvr

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    I would say the ultimate goal would be to no longer use porn as a stimulator and to refrain from masturbating as much as possible. I supposed
    If I went an extended period of time with out my gf like more than 5 days maybe then I could
    Use sexting with her.

    Has anyone found using significant others photos or sextant to be a gateway or trigger to falling off course?
     
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  4. Mar 26, 2014 #4
    johnf

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    Actually ,at a certain point any images of videos that turns you on sexually is porn. So it's better if your abstaining from sexting even if it's a picture of your gf.
     
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  5. Mar 26, 2014 #5
    Lagluvr

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    Hmm. I'm trying to come up with an analogy.
     
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  6. Mar 26, 2014 #6
    johnf

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    What are your motivation to stop porn and do you think your an addict ? It would be nice if you describe your story with porn. Because what i said previously was an answer for someone who is addict. When you watch porn your brain release dopamine and an addict when he is stopping porn tends to replace that dopamine stimulation with soft things like photos of girls in bikinis
     
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  7. Mar 26, 2014 #7
    Lagluvr

    Lagluvr Fapstronaut

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    Well I'm kind of leaning on the discrete side. But I've
    Used porn since I was in 7th grade. Started developing fetishes as early as
    8th grade. Since then I've masterbated on average more than once a
    Day. I'm now 29. The fetishes I have just
    keep on getting more kinkier. I started
    developing fantasies that would relate to real life and want to put
    A vault on things going any further. I feel that stopping porn and refraining from fantasizing and masturbating will be the best way to restore a more normal healthy sex
    Life and fantasies.
     
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