My first ever wet dream

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ifthisislove, Jan 21, 2018.

  1. ifthisislove

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    I woke up after a really sexual dream in the middle of the night with me having ejaculated all over myself having no control over where my hands were - it was at 5.58am in the morning when I woke up and worried sick and disappointed that my streak had come to an end. But I now know that it’s all part of the process and it’s all coming together nicely.

    I’m currently on my record of 73-74 days (I forget which), and my previous best streak was 69 days. Either way, I’m doing pretty well all things considered, even though my T levels and overall mood are at a low at the moment thanks to said wet dream.
     
  2. Nugget9

    Nugget9 Fapstronaut

    I wouldn't start over from a et dream, you had no control or even knew it was coming (literally).
     
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  3. Trucker

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    How can you NOT have a wet dream before then? Seriously!
    After a few days build up that's it for me, I can't imagine the aching pain it'd cause going anywhere near that long
     
  4. Nugget9

    Nugget9 Fapstronaut

    My girlfriend has been taking good care of me as always when it comes to that, or I don't know where I'd be.
     
  5. Prashanna

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    What aching pain are you talking about? If you're talking about blue balls, I used to have it too, but since I started noFap since Dec last month, I haven't had blue balls yet. Just don't think about sex too much. Because that's what's causing blood pressure in that area, and since you're not ejaculating, you'd experience pain. I've gone 43 days without ejaculating yet, but I've had 3-4 wet dreams. But I realized I was dreaming, and cancelled the dream for faster rebooting. Although even if I did O in the dream, it wouldn't have been so bad. It is possible to go a long time without ejaculating whatsoever.
     
  6. Trucker

    Trucker Fapstronaut

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    I get a really painful aching in the balls almost like a kick in jewels if I don't cum especially if I'm really aroused. Occasionally it can subside but usually the only way to relieve the pain is to ejaculate. No exaggeration it's like being kicked on the balls.
     
  7. Prashanna

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    Yes that's a condition called 'blue balls'. You only get them if you get aroused and don't ejaculate. Another way of getting rid of that pain is pouring cold water on your penis. It goes away after a while. I used to have them too, and I used it as an excuse to masturbate regularly, telling myself I won't be able to ever have a long nofap streak because I get this pain.. I was worried, and then googled to find out it's a common issue. But the blue balls are severe only when you're new to nofap. Like you been jerking off everyday for months/years, and suddenly stop for a week. I used to get them in the 5th or 7th day when I go without masturbating. Now I'm 44 days in and I felt no pain in any of these days. It's because the last nofap streak I went was some 3 weeks before 2 months and it ached back then. I guess now my body has just adjusted that even when I am horny, I still don't get blue balls.

    Bottomline, you will get em only initially, pour cold water and manage the little pain you have for a few hours. Try not to over think about sex at that time. Later you most probably won't experience that pain. If you have a porn problem or PIED, you need to make some sacrifices to cure your self. If you think you're not addicted and you're able to get it up with a real girl, then by all means do what you please, but keep porn and masturbation to a minimum, or you will start having problems.
     
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  8. Trucker

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    Ok thanks I'll try that although it might not always be convenient to source a cold plunge Bath at 2am. Certainly worth trying if it really does stop the aching though
     
  9. Prashanna

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    You don't need to pour one all over your body. Just your dick
     
  10. Trucker

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    Always worth a try but I don't think it'd stop me ejaculating tho
     

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