I wouldn't describe most sex as meaningless. It's not a binary thing. There is a spectrum between casual sex with multiple partners -- the mindset of "whom ought I fuck tonight?" and celibacy, right? There is such a thing a monogamy somewhere in there. The tone of the original post was very much about "friends with benefits" and sexuality without commitment. I'm not saying sex is meaningless. I'm saying this kind of sex is meaningless, and I don't think it's out of line to bring it up on a message board where many people are here because they are struggling to stop objectifying women. Reducing real women nothing more than instruments of sexual gratification is not better than doing it to pornstars! And that is not to say that that's what you are doing or what you want, but you talked an awful lot about casual sex and not at all about relationship or commitment in the original post. Sex is good. It is the natural outgrowth of the intertwining of two lives. Taken out of that context, it destroys people from the inside out -- which is exactly why we're all here. And yeah, Lonely Island. That's the good stuff!