"How does he get himself out of this pickle? Find out next time on Dysfunctional Warriors." In all seriousness, if anyone has any questions that they want answered asap, just direct message me. I'm actually working on the sequel post right now since I have some free time, might post it earlier than I said.
Thanks for your story. It was awesome. I'm 18 just relapsed today but i'm going to start a new strike tomorrow.
Great story! I'm doing it solo because it makes the victory that much sweeter. Being able to say "not only did I do it, but I did it without help or external factors" gives me goosebumps! I'm going to say this many times more here: I wish I had seen the light as a child or young teen. Just someone to plant the idea in my head. Just inception would've been enough. Keep it up!
Just wow man, this post is beautiful. I really conected with what you wrote, and it motivated me. I hope you and alex are doing great Thanks for this Ps: nice writing skills
Wow, really incredible! I want to change and I will do it! I am going to live my life and become awesome with women just like Alex! I want to quit PMO forever! It's my 14's day whitout porn and all by this I want make it out to 100 days. There's only one problem, I don't know if I should stay out of girls on this period or try to get in touch with them, because I want to improve myself and to not relapse PMO. I started some lifestyle courses to become a better person and sculpt my personality. So what do you think?
My opinion is just try to talk with girls, don't expect much but just a normal conversation with small talk.
Amazing post. Thanks for sharing this. It was very inspiring. In a lot of ways I am like you and there is a part of me that can relate with everything you mentioned in the post. Once again, thanks a lot!
Walk away from sexual stuff like a pastor, Shall God Award you and improve your destiny! Don't get driven by your thoughts, but control them. You are the owner of your thoughts instead of the slave.
Mate you have no idea how much your post has inspired me. From being suicidal at one point to finally realizing that there is hope in life, has given me so much more motivation to finally live. I can vouch that all the loss of desire i've had for the past 10 years has been through porn and masturbation, literally everything from a drop in my grades to social anxiety, inferiority to women, depression and frustration has been through P and M. I started this habit 10 years ago and this year i promise myself to quit this addiction, after a not so glorious 10 year anniversary since i started porn. I know that most people do this to improve with women and get better in bed but trust me when i say this that as 23 year old who is still maturing and opening up to life there is so much more to this that just women. Our desires and drives are what keeps humans going and focusing most of it on women will be just be a sabotaging cycle. Yes we do need relationships and plenty of sex but what we have to ask ourselves is, what is our purpose here and how do we benefit people's lives when we have a limited time on this planet? I've had plenty of women in my life and most of them came through my constant need of validation and yes P and M has pushed them away, but when you really look at what most women want in a man, is if he's living in congruence to his values. Im not trying to get philosophical and all, but just saying a reboot gives us so much of this untapped potential which we can harness to make it to the top of which ever field we are aiming for. I cant thank you enough for this beautiful post of yours and i do wish to make it as far as you and Alex and i also do understand that you've had a hard time doing this is cause of your depression. I can relate to that as well cause i started Nofap almost a year ago and within that time span i've only gone for a maximum of 11 days without PMO with an average of 5 days. Its hard doing this when you moods keep fluctuating and my best solution for this to first fix whatever it is that is bothering you and then treading on with Nofap. All the energy trapped inside you after a week's abstinence is quite a lot and channeling that into improving you self is the best method instead of ever giving in. I advice reading psychology and any self help whilst doing the challenge as its one of the avenues that can keep you going, by understanding yourself and whats keeping you in the slump. Thats it from my side man, cheers from India. Im looking forward to the sequel of this post and i do wish to give my update once i've reached a certain number of days through my abstinence. Thanks again
Great story! Relating to that condom story a lot.. It's been like that for years, I got hard but when it comes to a condom I get soft and can't get it up again. And this is actually a reason why I had a lot of unprotected sex (thank god miraculously I didn't catch any disease). Another observation related to this type of ED: it's usually like that when I have sex for a first time with that girl, usually after couple of times I am not so concerned and in my head about it and I can function normally. Anyway I believe it shouldn't be like this anyway.
Dude are you gonna give us an update? Its been a while since you've communicated anything on the site