My girlfriend doesnt understand, please help

And as for the three days anger and love, it's a true phsycological fact, I'm not making it up

 

sure

 

Dude, you and I have a totally different definition of the truth. You must be an atheist, am I right? A practicing one too

 

definitly

 

So you're telling me that women only wish to marry for sex, and that you would love it if your best friend stabbed you in the back? Is it just me or are you a bit off the basic human standards?

 

Trust me it was the same thing that happened to me this week. I had shordy over my crib and I couldn’t get hard. I had the death grip n I had PIED like the only thing I could get hard is by head. So right now I’m on hard mode. I explained it to her n she understands. The best advice I can give you is to go on hard mode but trust it’s not that easy you have to fill that gap with something else, stay away from social media especially IG. Fam when it happened to me I was frustrated and embarrassed n depressed cause she had a fat ass n her p*ussy was so tight n I couldn’t do any damage. So after that happened I knew I had a mission to do n that was to cut porn n masterbade outta my life for good. It’s like a psychological thing for me to the point where I don’t even wanna touch myself I’m so paranoid about it that every time I get urges I try to distract myself. Well that’s all the rambling I got for ya. Stay safe n stay strong brother.

 

Probably i is you not understanding man.
Why would she be with a man who can't have erections?

 

My brother, that's not what love is about. Love is not interested in physical features, it goes far beyond that. Have you ever heard the phrase "love is blind"? It really is, because it cares not for these trivial physical details

 

Thats true, but women have all the right of the world in being with healthy men. Why should she understand your PMO and erection problems? It's your problems, not hers.
Your point stands only if you're in a long term relationship. In that case she could be motivated in staying with you.
Btw i totally disagree with this"Love is not interested in physical features, it goes far beyond that". Thats pure bulls*it.

 

As I see, sex is what matters to her. Well, what about love?

 

I agree with you. Love may not be in this situation

 

It is NOT "bullshit" when you're speaking of true love. Love is not a physical thing, it is mental and spiritual, but the physical has nothing to do with it, it only acts as a sort of ignition, if you will, to the deep feeling. Do you have any other smart remarks to add to this?

 

Wow, just wow. As a women who has been with a porn addict for 33 years, it’s the lying, gaslighting, ignoring, and lack of empathy and maturity that destroys the relationship. Look at any study about porn addiction and relationships and it’s not about the porn. It’s how you, as a man behave because you are addicted.

 

Well there you go @treborn ,
I hope that a first-hand experience answer can suffice you, a good for nothing flesh lover.

 

Course i have, i am in a long term relationship with a girl i love, and without some good sex intimacy i'm 100% sure our relationship wouldn't have gone anywhere.
When i've been in a relationship where my sexual performances were weak guess what: it all ended really really badly for both us.

You think like a 15 years old virgin boy, and unless you're really 15 you have no excuse for that. Grow up and be a man, do it for yourself.

 

I am a Catholic Cristian man. If you know ANYTHING about ANY Christian, then you know that all those families made it just fine without sex until marriage. You're telling me to become a man?!? Why don't you put you're balls in your mouth and gain a brain?!? SEX IS NOTHING!! IT ONLY SERVES AS A MEANS OF REPRODUCTION!! I think you need to learn how life works, because you do NOT need sex to have a good relationship. And if you do, then is that the only reason you have a good relationship, because all your girlfriend loves about you is your penis, and you don't have any other qualities to make up for it??

 

I’m a Christian woman and I was not raised to believe sex was only for pro-creation. I was taught that sex was a gift from God to be shared with your husband as shown in the book Song of Songs ( Solomon). That if it was only for pro creation it would not be as pleasurable as it is. In fact the Bible teaches in a marital relationship to only abstain when both agree and in order to pray/draw closer to God together. Just a thought, perhaps that’s why I have no shame connected with sex and freely talk about it with my husband and kids? My husband has a very difficult time talking about it. Lots of shame connected to it for him. He was raised catholic and his parents believed it was only for pro creation. I agree that you don’t “ need” sex. However, it certainly helps in the bonding.

 

You are right. I guess I just got ahead of myself. I am not very fond of Solomon's book, but I understand it's truths. What I meant to say was that sex is not needed to build a strong relationship before marriage. To do such a thing is a mortal sin and can be payed for in hell. This man(probably a child) is saying that his relationship wouldn't have gone anywhere without it. If that's true, then what type of a twisted relationship is that?

 

Absolutely agree with u on that! Lol unfortunately for me, because I waited until marriage I had no idea what a normal sexual relationship was. Fortunately for me, we dated 5 years and I married my very best friend. I thought he was respecting me and my boundaries while dating, when in actuality he just jacked off to porn so had no real drive to ask or try anything sexual which me while dating.

 

Lol I can’t even stay mad an hour!