So my girlfriend and I were talking and she just casually mentioned how she was not attracted to me when she first met me. I thought that it was a rather odd comment and after talking some more she tried to say that attracted and attractive are two different words that mean different things. Basically saying you can find someone attractive without being attracted to someone. Okay, that's all fine and checks out but here is the thing... She said when she first met me she didn't find me "attractive" I never would consider myself a 10 but holy crap what guy wants to hear that their girlfriend doesn't find them attractive. And it just kept getting worse and worse... She kept trying to clarify and kept saying things that made me feel worse about the whole thing. She said she finds one of her other friends attractive but isn't attracted to them. Okay... But you just told me you didn't find me attractive at first. She then tried to say some crap about how she doesn't just look at people she meets and find them attractive. She basically said she was to know a person and be attracted to find them attractive. Then she said crap that basically tells that was a lie... At one point she even said that when she met one of my friends she did think that he was attractive... Like comeon so you don't find people attractive when you first meet them, but that was the exact thought you had when you met my friend. On top of that, you also said that your other friend is attractive. she could say her other friend was attractive but wasn't attracted to them. That's all fine, sweet you are "attracted" to me great, but I'm not "attractive"?? really??? After that she said, in a kinda passive-aggressive way, "what did you just expect my first thought when I met you to be wow he's hot" I'm over here thinking well no, but it would be nice if you hadn't just told me that was the reaction you had when you first met my friend. Anyways to top it all off she said something along the lines of there will always be someone better looking, better blah, better blah, etc... than you, you just have to get over it. Okay, I get it. Maybe it is true but that doesn't mean you have to tell your significant other that! Like what the hell! TL;DR- girlfriend said she didn't find me attractive at first. Then said she finds her other friend and my friend attractive. WTF!!!