my head develops a certain idea of some women

Hello everyone,

I would like to tell you about a recent experience. Perhaps you've experienced something similar?

I was talking to a woman on the bus a few weeks ago, just small talk about the weather and a nearby swimming pool. We then fell into a silence, it felt right for me at the time. I saw her again a few days ago, we looked into each other's eyes for a while, but I didn't speak to her then, I was in a very bad mood that day and didn't want to talk to her in a situation like that.

Anyway. This isn't about the actual encounter, but logically I'm aware of what the next steps could be and whether or not anything will come of it in the long term.

I don't know this person, but my head is still developing a certain idea about her: I'm assuming her to be similar, loving and other things and that's just based on one or two encounters. I've had this problem before, I dated a woman a few months ago and after only a very brief exchange I had a pretty accurate idea that didn't correspond to reality. What do you think about this? Maybe it's normal to a certain extent ... But it bothers me personally because I want to see people as they are.
 
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