My husband is going Hard mode, and don't know how long he'll be

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Abriana Henry, Mar 14, 2018.

  1. Abriana Henry

    Abriana Henry Fapstronaut

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    I'm at a loss. I really want to be supportive, but he brings this to me out of the blue and is starting tomorrow. He said it could take years, I told him that I would do it with him. (which is not an issue with me). I just don't wanna fall off the wagon. I don't want to do anything to hurt him, especially now that hes going to do the right thing. But no sex til who knows when? ugh! I need an AP.
     
  2. Pikacchhu

    Pikacchhu Fapstronaut

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    Wait for few months...
     
  3. Just me

    Just me Fapstronaut

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    I don't think I understand hard mode. How does this help?
     
  4. Hard mode essentially means no orgasm, either with or without a partner. Some rebooters elect to go hard mode to completely disassociate any negative habits or feelings that they developed over time with having an orgasm and going for a completely sex-free reboot in order to clear their minds. It's optional and not necessarily for everyone. It's not the only way to reboot.
     
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