My husband is going Hard mode, and don't know how long he'll be

Discussion in 'Partner Support' started by Abriana Henry, Mar 14, 2018.

  1. Abriana Henry

    Abriana Henry Fapstronaut

    I'm at a loss. I really want to be supportive, but he brings this to me out of the blue and is starting tomorrow. He said it could take years, I told him that I would do it with him. (which is not an issue with me). I just don't wanna fall off the wagon. I don't want to do anything to hurt him, especially now that hes going to do the right thing. But no sex til who knows when? ugh! I need an AP.
  2. Pikacchhu

    Pikacchhu Fapstronaut

    Wait for few months...
  3. Just me

    Just me Fapstronaut

    I don't think I understand hard mode. How does this help?
  4. Hard mode essentially means no orgasm, either with or without a partner. Some rebooters elect to go hard mode to completely disassociate any negative habits or feelings that they developed over time with having an orgasm and going for a completely sex-free reboot in order to clear their minds. It's optional and not necessarily for everyone. It's not the only way to reboot.
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