So we facetimed for a bit as he's at a work drinks due. Happy cheerful to see his kid and also nice with me. So I whstdapoed him later on that I have a request for him this evening..to please not use porn to take a wank this evening because it will change how he'll look at me tomorrow and the thought of him doing it it absolutely makes me vomit (unwell physically, no appetite to the point if vomiting water). It devastates me. I can't compete and won't compete with them as I lost already as they make him forget the essence of us. That I wouldn't have asked if I could help it. It is an upsetting thing for me at the moment. And that I'm not saying he'd have done it , but if he can help it, please don't do it... Well he was shown as online a few minutes ago (I sent messAge and delivered about 40mins ago) but it shows that he hasn't read my message (or at least hasn't opened it. So no reply.. I know he can read the whatsapp pop up freshly sent messages as they pop on screen when delivered,without necessarily opening the app that would show he's read them. Maybe he is busy at the work party. Later when drunk I'll get either the sulky silent treatment , or a reassuring message... Update: blanking me treatment it is. He has been online 3mins ago as his mum who's been sitting next to me has whatsapped him a photo of his kid and he opened that one. I feel a total obvious fool. Yep. Blanked again. Opened another photos from his mum but not my msg. I called then as his kid is mischievous and he likes face timing but he's declined my calls. He said he's not addicted,right? What's so hard to reassure your wife? This whole thing sucks and it's a sham.