My Journey as a Brahmachari

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by gagate, Oct 15, 2018.

  1. u376

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    Don't get me wrong brother
    But don't be too hard on yourself
    Don't you have any intention of getting married?
     
  2. u376

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    Controlling anger
    .....I think
     
  3. yosoy111

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    In these years you have been
    In these years you have been celibate, has any attractive woman liked you a lot and did she make a move? If so, how easy or hard was that for you to resist?
     
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  4. gagate

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    No, I'm not very social, I had some girls chasing after me when i was a teen, but I'm a virgin and never was open to relationships in general
     
  5. yosoy111

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    It would probably be a real test if a really attractive girl actively makes a move towards you. If so, I hope you succeed. Or maybe it wont be that bad to have a girlfriend and put brahmarcharya on hold :))
     
  6. cranks175

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    i dont understand why we always talk about this attraction towards women benefit, most of it has not to do with abstaining, well yes a little bit, but mostly because of your perception shift when you are on nofap. I think that every guy who does nofap primarly for attracting women has not got the point of the whole thing.
     
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  7. KeetsScrim

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    You can still practice chastity with a woman in your life. You don't have to have lustful thoughts simply because there is a woman in your life. It can teach you to respect and adore the woman. You can learn from her. She is a representation of the Divine feminine despite any flaws.
     
  8. gagate

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    Yes I agree, it's quite risky but at the same time can be rewarding, anything that is hard is rewarding
     
  9. Davidphd1866

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    This is precisely the direction things are going in my house. The longer my streak, the more divine feminine I see in my wife. And the more my celibacy with her becomes permanent. I adore her more and more and, in an ever increasing way, I am coming to feel that to "desire" her sexually would be to somehow defile her. To spill my seed with her would be to somehow degrade her.
     
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  10. gagate

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    I'm leaving you one pearl, you want to have sex because you unconsciously desire to realize you are One with the person you are lusting for. hope it helps
     
  11. gagate

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    Well after 177 days of total sexual abstinence mental included, wet dreams long gone. I totally feel different, my memory has drastically improved, I'm starting to rememebr thigns when I was 6 years old, my physical strength has greatly increased, I think on a higher level and it's easier for me to grasp things, I sleep less, I need less food. There are countless more benefits I experienced but I wont bother mentioning them they are too many, I wish I had started continence 10 years ago.

    I can confidently say expression of the sexual desire is a lower desire and brings short term pleasure and long term misery for years to come.

    Porn is the greatest evils mankind has ever known and it should be eradicated from the face of earth. The porn industry is responsible of immense miseries in the life of people.
     
  12. u376

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    Sir you are legend
    Hats off
    How you manage your urges ....I am on 12 days without porn
     
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  13. gagate

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    I am nothing special

    In regards to how I manage the urges, now I no longer have them on waking state, but I'm always on guard.

    The first days were the hardest, first couple weeks.

    I guess strong devotion to god is what helped me the most and strong desire to eradicate the animal desire.

    Indulging in sex is madness... there's no reward at all, people indulge in it because they are ignorant and don't know the consequences, I learnt it the hard way.

    But consider I lead a pure lifestyle, vegetarian diet, so it's a bit easier for me
     
  14. gagate

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    177 days seem alot but they are nothing, excited to see what the future holds.
     
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  15. yosoy111

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    You are a bit into the irrational path saying that having sex is bad... you are close to insanity. No serious guru have ever said that sex renunciation is necessary or that intercourse is evil.
     
  16. u376

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    if you want to live a normal life then sex is fine
    but if you want to achieve supreme god then giving up sex will greatly help in that journey.....
    all great realized souls gave up these worldly pleasures.........but yes this is very very difficult
     
  17. yosoy111

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    I understand, but what you are saying is different from what gagate says. It seems he forgot how he came to this world and how future enlightened people will come.
     
  18. gagate

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    I never said for procreation is wrong
     
  19. gagate

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    Read my post again, I said porn is one of the greatest evil, where did I say that sex is "bad"?
     
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    You wrote "Indulging in sex is madness".
     

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