My Journey as a Brahmachari

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by gagate, Oct 15, 2018.

  1. gagate

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    And everything is relative, I feel bad for african kids that are born because their parents need helping hands, but because of their selfishness they will suffer given their environmen
    Sorry, english isn't my first language, indulging in sex I mean for selfish pleasure
     
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  2. gagate

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    actually indulging isn't the wrong word

    indulging: allow oneself to enjoy the pleasure of
     
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  3. yosoy111

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    Which is ridiculous, because you are going to enjoy sex either way or the other. You have lost your mind Im afraid.
     
  4. gagate

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    I think you are totally misunderstanding me, when you do sex just for your own selfish pleasure that's where it brings misery both to you and those around you. that's what I mean by INDULGING.

    If the higher intent of intercourse is to procreate, there will be physical pleasure, of course, but physical pleasure isn't the highest intent, I'm afraid but you misunderstood me

    The physical pleasure is a facilitator for procreation, just the taste of food when you eat, you really got me in the wrong way
     
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  5. yosoy111

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    Whatever man. Anyway, I really would love to see you how you react if a hot 18 year old babe started hitting on you. I really doubt that you could resist her :)
     
  6. gagate

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    I already had many hitting me at the gym don't worry
     
  7. yosoy111

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    And none of them provoked you a sexual thought? Those girls must not be your type, otherwise I dont believe it.
     
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  8. disenchantedbrony

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    I imagine that the term ‘sexual thought’ is very subjective. Its definition is probably pretty different from one person to the next. Like anything else, it depends on a person’s experiences throughout their life. Something I’ve been thinking about lately since I’ve started on this website is the difference between appreciating beauty in a person and having a lustful thought. Before, I never really thought of this. But since I’ve been abstaining from PMO I’ve found that I see much more beauty in women and just in the world in general. I’m not talking about being horny either. It’s a paradox. Although I still struggle with lustful thoughts I’m beginning to see that it’s more like a compulsion or reaction when I have a lustful thought vs when I’m simply noticing the unique beauty of someone which is more of a chosen response. That’s just my perspective at the moment. There’s so much to this topic and none of it is very obvious or like black and white but I find it all very interesting. I’m learning a lot from everyone here. Thanks!
     
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  9. gagate

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    If you are in control of your mind, no sexual thoughts can come, just go and look at porn, you will have heaps of them and an erection, you will think you won't have any, but you are actually having them, because you are not in control of your mind, it's kind of hard to explain with words, but the more in control you are of your mind the harder they pop up and also I kind of de-identified from my body, which helps alot and many other reasons I won't bother to mention
     
  10. yosoy111

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    I don’t believe you. A few months ago you said that there were no women that were showing attraction to you, that you had no social life etc, now all of the sudden lot of girls at the gym are hitting at you? Sorry but I don’t buy it.
     
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    Have you heard of Moksha and is it voluntarily attainable?
     
  12. giorom

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    HI gagate,

    ---------------can you tell my which isithinks you have done to avoid porn and learn Brahmachari please?

    ----------------Brahmachari is a book or there are exercise you have done every days?

    I report below your first post and another question:

    In this thread I will share my experience as a Brahmachari

    I started to masturbate when I was 15, I'm now 25 and it's been a while since I stopped.

    My goal is: Strictly no sexual thoughts, No Porn, No sex, No Masturbation, avoiding people that speak about sex. My goal is to get rid of sexual desire (transcending sex) through proper Sadhana.



    --------------Why you have advantage respect others guys?
     
  13. giorom

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    I see you use also bhakti yoga annd kundalini
    'he secret is strong bhakti yoga along with other udnerstandings'

    Can you tell me something on this please?
     
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    Sorry I don't understand what meaning.

    if you control your mind you don't have sexual thought

    If you don't have control of your mind you have sexula thought

    or you are meaning also others meaning?
     
  15. Aquablue

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    Yes Wet dreams are common but eventually stop as well. Good luck with ur journey :)
     
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    The best tool to start the process of transmuting sexual energy the "Mool bandha" practice. This is very simple and helps to raise energy from lower chakras to higher ones. Build up of creative energy (which has its origin in the base chakra and builds up in the sacral chakra as sexual/procreative energy) results in sexual urges if it is not raised up further. This is especially the case if one's mind is focussed on sexual thoughts, as attention is what directs energy to a purpose.

    So the secret of tranmsutation is to use the breath and attention to move energy to higher centres. Initially this is to the solar plexus in the abdomen then to the heart. From the heart you can start manifesting your true self and whatever you need around you to fulfill your purpose in this life. If you go even higher up to the third eye you will obtain a new sense of perception and understanding and see much much more than you currently can. And further up is the crown chakra which connects you to the source of everything - cosmic energy.

    To carry out this practice, you need to ba able to feel the sexual energy in your sacral/ genital region. Close your eyes and pay attention to it. Link it with your breath. Then take a conscious breath of inhalation focussing on the breath as it goes from your upper body down your spine and meets the energy you feel in your sacral area. As you do this contract and hold your PC muscles, so that you have fully clenched this when your breath and attention reach the base of your spine. Hold your breath and attention for a few seconds then slowly and consciously visualise the energy moving up to your abdomen and heart as your breathe out. Repeat this every time you feel a sexual build up and this tension will dissolve as your energy is moved up. You will feel orgasmic energy in your abdomen and then heart. It will then manifest in whatever you choose in a very powerful way. If you want further spiritual growth, you can proceed to higher chakras, and when you connect to cosmic energy, the pleasure is a thousand fold what people experience with usual sexual release form lower chakras.
     
  17. Amphibian

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    I will begin implementing this.
     
  18. giorom

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    Hi Aquablue try to use the tecnique you have espleined.

    Is not clear me this part:

    As you do this contract and hold your PC muscles, so that you have fully clenched this when your breath and attention reach the base of your spine. Hold your breath and attention for a few seconds then slowly and consciously visualise the energy moving up to your abdomen and heart as your breathe out.

    Where I have sessual think I use my breathe as:

    when I inhalation focus my breath by moving attention from upper body( chest, hearth, head) to back of my shoulder and sexsual zone. When I finish my inspiration I concract and hold my PC muscles. During I hold my breath I moving my attention form sessual zone to my hearth and adbomen.
    After I moving my attention on abdomen-hearth during I have hold my breath, I can have espiration.

    I can repeat this for four five time consecutives.


    Is correct my understanding?
     
  19. Aquablue

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    Hi Giorom,

    Yes that's correct. If you're doing it successfully you will feel the energy move from the sexual centre to higher centres. When I got it to my heart it was like having constant orgasms with every breath in the heart area.
     
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  20. disenchantedbrony

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    This is so amazing. I was doing something like this before but the way you described it works soo much better. I’m going to practice this everyday and see it as a sign to stop doing things halfway and stopping. I sabotage myself so much this way. Thank you very much for the information and inspiration!
     

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