Is it too late to do a consequence? Of course I forgot to list lying about M on the boundaries list. I listed lying about P. Consequence for that is I leave. So it's my fault this happened. It should've been on the list. So I'd know what to do. I asked him before we went to sleep what he wanted the consequence to be. He calls it a punishment still. He wants me to come up with one. I don't know how to get through to him that it's different. I've explained it a million times. It's a punishment if I'M the one enforcing it. It's a consequence if he's taking responsibility and being accountable and HOLDING himself accountable. A direct consequence for his actions that he knows will happen. He doesn't want to. After all this time. He still wants ME to be the one controlling this. I can't do it. I'm going to tell him tonight that I can't be his AP anymore. I have to take care of ME.