My philosophical thoughts on male to female attraction

I have recently thought about that women are attractive in two types of ways (this is my personal experience). First there is the universal way. You know if someones 8, 9 or 10 everyone can agree on that. Everybody can see those good genes. Then the second way or thing is (I came up with this term myself) the cute factor. You can call it the subjective way but I will call it the cute factor. And that's because there are women who are below 8 and even average (though are they really average then?) who I'm more attracted to than some 8s, 9s or 10s and what makes them different is that they are cute in some mysterious way(s). Some 9 is hot but she may not have that cute factor. The thing with cute factor is that I can't point it in someone. May that be because she's closer to my status? But I've also encountered 8+s who have that cute factor. So the range is pretty large, and I doubt it's because of that. Oh and to add if someone has the cute factor I must meet them again to realize it. I don't have to talk to them or know them personally but simply pass them on the street more than once. I don't know if this is relevant at all, I just wanted to write my thoughts down. What do you think?

 

Well I have to disagree. When I rate someone's looks it doesn't mean I only care about their looks. If you say someone is good looking or beautiful or cute that's the same thing only more abstract. When you assign a number for their looks it's easier to process it with the left brain.

Of course they aren't. I was talking only about physical attraction. But nowadays modern women are too often narcissistic and can't self-reflect or think about others. So most of them can only bring their looks to the table. And for the ones who are ready to call me misogynistic pig; it's not really their fault, yes it's their responsibility to fix that, but the environment they've grown up in has caused it. Like if you abuse a child the child will probably become violent and toxic. It's not the child's fault. And it's not ALL women, only the majority.

 

Yeah "falling in love" is a ridiculous concept. If you fall in "love" with anyone be prepared for hard love life. Mainstream love is a blatant lie.

 

Shouldn't it be called "fall in lust"? Or whatever else? Cuz it certainly ain't love if you happen to catch it just cuz of someone's skin/facial bones/something else.

 

That cute factor, as vague as you're being about articulating it- might be what you call charm (or even in some cases, the "it"-factor).
Some people have "it." Many people don't.