My social anxiety has made a bad first impression to new neighbours

B L A N K F A C A E

B L A N K F A C A E

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Whats up guys,i have an issue here.some new neighbours moved in last year and because of pmo i havent made a positive first impression.i havent introduced myself properly and have been sort of akward towards them,especially to one of the family memebers a girl and she is kind of cute i would like to get to know her as a neighbour but i feel like she has boxed me in a negative way,though she is younger than me cause she is still in high school and im 26.so going forward how would you advise me your feedback would be appreciated
 
Don’t be the creepy guy next door. If you run into her just say “good morning/afternoon/evening” and be on your way. Nothing more than polite conversation. Don’t get fixated on an underage girl next door. You’re 26 so date women in their 20s—young, beautiful, adventurous, horny, experienced and looking for new experiences and enjoying life!

same thing with the parents, though you can try more small talk to get to know them. Be polite, not too intrusive and let them know if they need anything to give you a ring.
 
I have the same issue. I avoid talking to my neighbors even though I could say hello when I see them passing by or whatever. In my head I see them as a stranger so I don’t interact but then I see them more than once so it makes sense to be friendly. They probably think I’m an asshole. I barely talk to my roommates. I prefer to keep to myself or hang out with my close friends.
 
BananaBread900 said:
I have the same issue. I avoid talking to my neighbors even though I could say hello when I see them passing by or whatever. In my head I see them as a stranger so I don’t interact but then I see them more than once so it makes sense to be friendly. They probably think I’m an asshole. I barely talk to my roommates. I prefer to keep to myself or hang out with my close friends.
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ive been like this in every place i have lived. i just set boundaries with people. because ive lived beside problem neighbors and that shit will make you insane.
 
she's very young, a teenager in high school. You'd better look for someone your age, a woman in her early twenties for preference.
 
Just say hello, not more.
I personally also ignore married women at my age or younger just to avoid stress with their men.
 
I've live in the same house for nine years and I've barely ever interacted with any of my neighbors.

Also, given that you specifically mentioned the girl being cute and wanting to get to know her better, I really don't believe you are just asking this because you want to be a good neighbor or something.

Even if the woman was older, I would still say it's a bad idea to try to get to know your neighbor in that way. If things go poorly or you go out and then it goes terribly or you date for a while and then break up, you would then be living in an extremely uncomfortable situation every single day in your own home. That sounds like a nightmare.
 
It's bizarre seeing for once that pretty much all of off-topic sections comes together to agree on a good opinion on a topic.

Idk if you're trying to lie to us or to yourself, but if your tought process about a girl is: "she's cute, I'd like to get to know her" you pretty certainly are interested in fucking her and not just knowing her as a neighbour. Which, as everyone else has already said, maybe just don't approach her at all, because she's still a child.

On a more general note about interacting with neighbours, just saying hi/nodding when you see each other should be enough. No more is needed and the fact that they haven't initiated anything more than that seems to suggest that they aren't interested in any more than that either, at least to the extent that you'd have to worry about it.
 
B L A N K F A C A E said:
Whats up guys,i have an issue here.some new neighbours moved in last year and because of pmo i havent made a positive first impression.i havent introduced myself properly and have been sort of akward towards them,especially to one of the family memebers a girl and she is kind of cute i would like to get to know her as a neighbour but i feel like she has boxed me in a negative way,though she is younger than me cause she is still in high school and im 26.so going forward how would you advise me your feedback would be appreciated
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If she is 17 you could wait a year but I personally think that you have a different problem. I think you have a poverty mindset. I think you wouldn't think about that if you would believe that there are plenty of other girls you could meet with. I myself have also social anxiety especially when I pmo. I hope this was helpful for you.
 
demonsamurai77 said:
If she is 17 you could wait a year but I personally think that you have a different problem. I think you have a poverty mindset. I think you wouldn't think about that if you would believe that there are plenty of other girls you could meet with. I myself have also social anxiety especially when I pmo. I hope this was helpful for you.
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Its not a poverty mindset at all.i guess novelty has got some part in it,since they are new neihgbours
 
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