My story and a cry for help!

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by TurboMike, Feb 11, 2017.

  1. TurboMike

    TurboMike Fapstronaut

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    As I was writing this, I assumed it would be too long for most people, so I made a very short version.

    Short Version with question

    I've been masturbating since I was 12 years old. It's been my primary introduction to sex my entire life. I've masturbated basically daily since then. I've "dry" masturbated so much that sometimes I rub the skin off my penis. Gross as I replay it in my mind.

    Recently I'm having PIED and it's really affecting my relationship with my wife. I'm looking to reboot. Can I PM, but still keep the O for the sake of my wife? I can't always maintain an erection, but should it happen during the 90 days, would that be acceptable, or should I abstain from it all for those 90 days?

    Can I be healed despite doing this for 23 years? I've masturbated at least 8400 times since I started this. That's once a day for 23 years.



    Details about me

    Name is Mike, just call me TurboMike going forward. I'm a Network Administrator by day, serial masturbator by night and on weekends. I'm currently married to my loving wife of less than a year at this point, but we have been together for nearly 9 years. She's all I know. No cheating, no breaks, nothing.

    Recently my masturbation has gotten to the point that I'm unable to maintain an erection, thus causing me to not achieve an orgasm during sexual activity with her! I am however able to get and maintain an erection and orgasm during porn sessions... The moment I start having sex it's like my body just gives up. I hate to say it, but it's uninterested in sex it seems.

    A little history about myself, I started masturbating when I was 12 years old. I found a porn from my parents and started humping the air, it felt great. Then money shot happened and I mimicked the action and instant orgasm. From that day on my masturbation career began.

    I've always had issues maintaining and achieving an erection with my past women through out my life. I always chalked it up to performance anxiety which it can very well be. But at this point in my life, it shouldn't be there. I'm either uninterested in my wife sexually (which I don't feel it can be) or I'm no longer excited with sex, just porn.

    I want to fix this, I no longer want to disappoint my wife with erectile dysfunction. I no longer want to be bored with sex. I no longer want to rely on my right hand and eyes to fulfill me.

    Please help me

    Thanks,

    Turbo Mike
     
  2. victor0258

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    Hi men, I'm 18 and also have PIED. It feels like shit but we don't have the choice to continue with NoFap until it fixes itself. I would recommend you to stop PMO for at least 60 days before considering sex because you will hit flatline. In case of emergency you can also try pills like viagr* and ci*lis it works for some.
     
  3. TurboMike

    TurboMike Fapstronaut

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    I'm currently on Vyagra and it works for me, but I feel like I shouldn't be on it. It's kind of one of those things that is a bandaid for a cut rather than dealing with the cut itself. I don't want to be on Vyagra, I want to be able to be good on my own.

    I will heed your advice though and really try to NoFap for as long as it's a problem and hopefully end it completely. I'm unfortunately addicted to porn and masturbation. I have a problem and it sucks for sure.
     
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  4. victor0258

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    HI, I started with a very terrible PIED and i'm only 18. My doctor gave me ci*lis. I would like to know if you tried it and how well vyagra works for you? (if its 100% normal when you're on it)
     
  5. TurboMike

    TurboMike Fapstronaut

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    Vyagra works good for me, there's tricks I've learned in my time with it. Empty stomach is a must. If I eat anything, literally anything when taking it, it's delayed or not present at all. I can however eat after it's taken affect. So say I have a dinner date, I'll take it on an empty stomach, wait for the signs it's working, take ibuprofen to alleviate the swelling of my blood vessels in my head and badda bing badda boom, I'm erection ready once stimulated.

    But like I said, if I eat prior to taking it, it's either delayed severely or gone completely. Pill wasted and with my insurance it's $70 for 4 pills so, they're not cheap to be wasting. I definitely take care when I take them and try to maximize it's affects.
     
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  6. victor0258

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    Thanks for the advice but is it okay if you ate something in the morning or drink water for example and you use it the afternoon? Of course you should stick with NoFap to avoid medication but being in college and all I would like a temporary solution.
     
  7. maca187

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    I know...I feel like taking meds...but I want a fix I don't want to rely on a pill.
     

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