Hi guys, I've done no-PMO before but relapsed a couple years ago. I noticed that I was not at all sexually motivated to sleep with my girlfriend anymore, so I got back on the regime. We've broken up since then, and I avoided calling old hook-ups to get laid, so basically I've been abstinent for about a month now. I've recently started dating again and I've noticed that I am pretty much hard the entire date. Not only during a make-out session, but even while sitting across the table from each other. I'm hard as I type this, lol. My dick has a mind of its own at this point and refuses to take no for an answer. Luckily, I have a few second dates lined up for the next few days and I am sure that I will be getting laid within the next week or so, which is good. Some questions related to my experience so far: I've gotten blue balls several times after dates. It kind of sucks. The ice-cold water approach has worked temporarily, but does this effect go away after a while or is it a permanent staple of the NoFap lifestyle? Will I continue to have a permanent boner in between sexual encounters? I actually don't mind it. I prefer it to the idea of my body getting so used to not being hyper-aroused that my penis stops getting hard and atrophies. I am concerned about nutting too fast after I start having sex again. Is this something that re-calibrates or does NoFap typically lead to faster ejaculation due to greater sensitivity to real sex forever? Thanks! Glad to be part of the movement again.